Ingcebiso koomama

Ngaba unayo ifowuni engenantambo ekhaya? Ngokuqinisekileyo impendulo nguewe, kuba siyazi ukuba basinika izibonelelo ezininzi kwaye ...

Ukuba unomntwana onexhala lesikolo, imithambo-luvo ngamanye amaxesha inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi xa ...

Ukuze umntwana aphuhlise izithuthi kunye nezakhono zomzimba kuye kufuneke ukuba abazali babakhuthaze ngemisebenzi ethile.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukulibaziseka kulwimi lwabantwana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufuna uncedo olufanelekileyo!

Ukuba awufuni ukuba usapho lwakho luchithe ixesha elininzi phambi kwesikrini, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso.

Isigama ebantwaneni kufuneka siphuhliswe ukusukela xa bebancinci, ngale ntsasa baya kuba nesiseko sokufunda ...

Sukuziphosa ezi zakhono zibaluleke kakhulu ukuziphuhlisa ebantwaneni kwasebusaneni, zilungele ukukhula kwabo!

Ukuba unomntwana ophakathi kweminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3 ubudala, ungaphoswa yiyo yonke into anakho ukuyiphumeza kulo nyaka wenkqubela phambili enkulu kuphuhliso lwakhe.

Ukuba uza kuqala umntwana wakho atye ukutya okuqinileyo, emva koko uyakufuna izinto ezisisiseko eziyimfuneko kwinkqubo.

Kubalulekile ukuba uphucule unxibelelwano olungathethiyo lwabantwana bakho ukuze uphucule unxibelelwano ngokubanzi kusapho lwakho.

Fumanisa ukubaluleka konxibelelwano olungathethi ngomlomo kusapho, kubalulekile ukuba ube nolwalamano olomeleleyo lweemvakalelo!

Ukuba ufumanise ukuba uxinzelelo lwakho lukuchaphazela kakhulu kunye nosapho lwakho, lixesha lokuba uphucule imeko.

Ngaba uqaphele ukuba nanini na xa nifumana ixesha lenu njengesibini, nibukele umabonwakude kwaye nifuna ukuba itshintshe? Sikuxelela indlela!

Kubalulekile ukuba abazali babakhokele abantwana babo ukuze babe nonxibelelwano lokwenyani nehlabathi elibangqongileyo, siya kukuxelela ukuba ungayenza njani.

Abasetyhini abangoomama akufuneki bayeke imisebenzi yabo ukuba abafuni. Bafuna nje ukuba bhetyebhetye okuncinci!

Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bathethe nabakwishumi elivisayo malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesondo kunye notywala, zizincoko ezibalulekileyo!

Usuku lukaTata luya kuba lukhethekileyo kwaye luhluke kuwo wonke umntu. Namhlanje, sizakucinga ngakumbi ngabantu abalahlekileyo kufutshane nathi ... kwaye siyokonwabela uthando.

Sijongene neemeko ezintsha zentlalo kunye nezempilo ezisinyanzelayo ukuba sizivalele ekhaya kunye neentsapho, kufuneka sizole!

Ngenxa yeeveki ezimbini ekufuneka zonke iintsapho zikuchithe ekhaya, kubalulekile ukugcina izinto ezithile ezingqondweni ngokubhekisele ebantwaneni.

Ixesha likamabonwakude linokuba yimicimbi yosapho, kodwa kufuneka lilinganiselwe ukuze lingabi ngumkhwa ombi.

Amanzi ayimfuneko ebomini kwaye abantwana kufuneka basele amanzi ukuze babe sempilweni. Qaphela ukuba umntwana wakho usele amanzi aneleyo okanye hayi.

Ubuchule sisakhono esinokufundwa kwaye somelezwe, ke kubalulekile ukuba sibukhuthaze ebantwaneni besebancinci.

Ngaba ucinga ukuba inyani yokuba abantwana bakho bayayithobela imithetho ayinakuphikiswa? Akukho nto kuloo nto! Landela ezi ngcebiso kwaye yonke into iya kutshintsha ... ibe ngcono.

Ukuze abantwana bakhule ngendlela esempilweni kwaye bakhule kakuhle, kufuneka bafunde ukuba nemimiselo yeemvakalelo elungileyo njengentsapho.

Xa umntu omthandayo ehamba ngokulungileyo, ukubona isitulo esingenanto ngeKrisimesi kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu, kuba eso sihlalo asinakuze sigcwaliswe ngomnye umntu.

Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, kufuneka banikwe uxanduva. Awubenzeli nto abantwana bakho ...

Inqanaba lokungabikho kwabantwana abancinci liqhelekile kwaye liyimfuneko ukuze babenako ukubomeleza ubuni kunye nobuntu babo. Ke unokulawula eli nqanaba!

Ayifani into yokuba umntwana abe nomsindo ngokungaziphathi kakuhle ngenxa yengxaki yoluvo. Sikuxelela umahluko.

Ukuba ngumama akululanga, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ucelomngeni ngumama akuthethi ukuba awubathandi abantwana bakho. Ukuziva ngathi kukho iintsuku ongenakuma ngazo kuyinto eqhelekileyo ...

Xa uba ngumama omtsha, ubomi bakho butshintsha ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngoku lelona xesha uphambili kulo: abantwana bakho abancinci.

Imida esempilweni ibalulekile ekukhuleni okufanelekileyo kwabantwana. Njengotata okanye umama kunyanzelekile ukuba umfundise ukuzibeka.

Ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya nabantwana akufuneki kube nzima, ngombutho omncinci kunokuba ngamava ...

Ukuba ufuna ukuqala usapho kodwa awukalifumani ixesha ebomini bakho lokwenza njalo, musa ukuxabana okanye ubamonele abahlobo bakho.

Ukuba ufuna ukukhuliswa kakuhle kusapho lwakho kwaye abantwana bakho bakhule bonwabile, awungekhe uziphose ezi ngcebiso ... uya kuqala!

Ngaba ucinga ukuba ukuba nexesha leholide ungenabantwana kukuzingca kakhulu? Fumanisa ukuba kutheni kufuneka uyenze ixesha elincinci.

Wonke umama notata emhlabeni onentombi kufuneka abaxhobise ukuze bazilungiselele umhlaba apho ...

Ukuqinisekisa kuyafuneka kubudlelwane nabanye kunye nokuzazi ixabiso lakho ... fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba babenako!

Abantwana namhlanje banamathuba okuba batyebe, ngenxa yoko kufuneka sibakhuthaze ukuba basebenze ngakumbi kwaye banciphise umzimba xa befuna.

Ngaba wakhe wabashiya bodwa abantwana bakho emotweni ngelixa wawusenza umyalezo othile? Ayinamsebenzi ukuba lixesha elincinci, ayisiyonto ekufuneka yenziwe ...

Ukukhula kakuhle kwemoto yomntwana wakho, uyakufuna ukuba umncede anyuse amandla akhe emoto ... sikunika elona cebiso lililo!

Abantwana bahamba kancinci kancinci kwaye batya kakubi, oku kubangela ukutyeba kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kunokuba yingxaki enkulu yezempilo.

Ungumama kwaye ujonga iinethiwekhi zentlalo rhoqo ... Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni ucinge ukuba ubomi babanye bufezekile kanti obakho buyintlekele.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho angangcungcuthekisa esikolweni okanye isikolo sele sikuxelele, kuya kufuneka ke uqonde ukuba kutheni ngaphambi kokumnceda.

Ukuba unabantwana, nikela ingqalelo ekuziphatheni kwabo, njengoko benokubamba. Ukuqunjelwa ebantwaneni kufuneka kunyangwe ngokukhawuleza. Qaphela!

Ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato sele lukufuphi, kufanelekile ukuthetha nabantwana ukuze bazi ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni ukusukela ngoku kwaye bayathandwa ngentliziyo yonke.

Ukuphela kwekhosi kuyasondela kwaye nayo, izipho kootitshala ... Isiko elifakwe kwizikolo ezininzi.

Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uyayazi indlela yokuchaza iimvakalelo zakhe ngamazwi kodwa akayazi indlela yokuchaza imvakalelo, kufuneka umfundise ukuba azenze zombini ngokuchanekileyo!

Uburharha kufuneka ube yinxalenye yobomi ukuze ukhulele kwikhaya elonwabisayo elonyusa amaxesha amnandi njengosapho. Phuhlisa uburharha ekhaya!

Ngalo lonke ixesha uphuma njengentsapho ukuya kutya kwivenkile yokutyela okanye ukuya ethekweni, ngaba uphela usitya kakubi kakhulu? Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukutya ukutya okunezondlo!

Ukuba ungumama, kuya kufuneka uyazi ezi mfihlo zabucala kuba ziya kukunceda wena neqabane lakho ukuba nibe ngabazali abangcono ... kunye nomtshato ongcono!

Umsebenzi wasekhaya luxanduva lwenu nobabini, kodwa ukuba nisebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya kwaye iqabane lakho lihlala apho ukuze likhathalele abantwana, unethamsanqa!

Ukuba uziva udinwe kakhulu ukuba ungakhathala nosapho lwakho kunye nesiqu sakho, kungangokuba awuphumli kakuhle usapho ... funda ukulala ngakumbi!

Uchitha ixesha elingakanani ngosuku ubukele umabonwakude njengentsapho? Ukubukela iTV akulunganga kubantwana ukuba kwenziwe ngokuchanekileyo.

Xa isibini okanye umtshato uhamba ngokuzala, lixesha elinzima kakhulu kubudlelwane nakubomi babo. Kuya kufuneka nixhasane ...

I-Postpartum inokuba lixesha apho abasetyhini baziva besemngciphekweni ngakumbi emzimbeni nasemzimbeni ...

Abantwana bakho abancinci babukela ixesha elingakanani kumabonwakude? Balala njani ebusuku? Zombini ezi zinto zinokunxibelelana ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga ...

Ukukhetha isikolo sabantwana abafundela abantwana bakho, kufuneka uqale wenze uphando olululo ukuze wazi ukuba lowo ...

Ukuba ungumama, uya kuyazi into yokuba uswele iiyure ... Ngaba ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukwenza yonke into? Sele "ungumfazi ogqwesileyo". Ungahlala unjalo ukuba ulandela ezi ngcebiso.

Abantwana banokungabi nasizathu sokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ... Kodwa ukusukela ngoku, yonke into izakuba ngcono kwaye ayizukubiza mali ininzi, nantsi indlela!

Iivenkile zizele zizimvo zesipho soSuku looMama, kodwa ezona zipho zingcono kuwe, musa ukubiza mali!

Ukuba unomntwana ohlala exhalabile okanye esoyika, ungaphoswa ngala mabinzana azolileyo kwaye amfundise ukulawula.

Ukuba ucinga ngokuba nabantwana kukho izinto ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo ukuvavanya ukuba ingaba sisigqibo esifanelekileyo na.

Ukuba ufuna ukugcina ixesha kunye nemali, eyona nto unokuyenza kukubheja kumagumbi okulala abantwana bakho. Fumanisa ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo.

Ukuba ufuna ukukhuliswa kakuhle, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzithelekise nabanye ... kuba usapho ngalunye lwahlukile kwaye lunezinto zalo ezingafaniyo!

Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana banokuba nengxaki yokulala, into echaphazela lonke usapho. Abantwana kufuneka balale ...

Uninzi lwabazali bayazibuza ukuba ingaba licebo elilungileyo na ukushiya abantwana babo kunye nethebhulethi okwexeshana, ingaba licebo elilungileyo okanye kungcono ukulithintela?

Ukuba ekhaya nilala ebhedini enye kodwa nifuna ukuba umntwana wenu aqale ukulala ngendlela ...

Abantwana abancinci banokufumana i-bruxism, kodwa kutheni oko kusenzeka kwaye kufuneka uqaphele ntoni? Ungaphoswa zezi nkcukacha.

Ukuba usandula ukubeleka, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uqaphele ukuba umzimba wakho wahlukile ... Kodwa ukuba uziva ukhathazekile ... ungakulibali oku!

Wakhe waziva ngathi "awubathandi" abantwana bakho? Oluvakalelo luqhelekile kodwa luthetha enye into eyahlukileyo ... Ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni?

Ukuba ungutata okanye umama kwaye abantwana bakho bafuna ukuba segumbini lakho lokulala ngalo lonke ixesha, buyisela indawo yakho yokuphumla ukuze ulale kakuhle!

Ukuba ungumama kwaye usebenza ekhaya, unokuziva ngathi awunamveliso ... Kodwa ungazidibanisa zombini!

Nangona kuyeyona nto intle ebomini, asinakukhanyela ukuba ukuba nabantwana akukho lula kwaphela ukukhathalela ubudlelwane.

Iinwele zabantwana abancinci zibuthathaka kakhulu ke ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bazi ezi ngcebiso ukuze bazigcine zisempilweni kwaye zomelele.

Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza ukuze abantwana bakho bakhule kakuhle ngokweemvakalelo kukuba ... phefumla! Fumana isizathu sokuba kufuneka njalo.

Kungenzeka ukuba unengxaki ezithile zobudlelwane ezichaphazela ngokungaphaya usapho lwakho ngokungafunekiyo.

Iinethiwekhi zentlalo ziyinxalenye yobomi bezigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela. Yindlela elula ...

Ukuba ubamkele abantwana kodwa ungazi ukuba bangabo, usenokuzibuza ukuba yeyiphi indlela ebhetele yokuxelela. Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso.

Ukuba ungumama oxakekileyo, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso ukuze ukwazi ukuzilolonga ngaphandle kwexesha elimiselweyo onalo suku ngalunye.

Abantwana bangafunda ukuxolisa ... ukuba bayifunda kuwe kuqala. Ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso ukuze ugcine uxolo lwakho lunyanisekile.

Ukuba abantwana bakho bahlala bebukela umabonwakude ngaphandle kweliso elibukhali, umxholo onogonyamelo unokuluchaphazela njani ukukhula kwabo?

Ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka anxibe iiglasi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyigcine engqondweni, kuba nokuba isisiseko kubalulekile ukuyikhumbula!

Ngaba ungumama kwaye sele uziva ukuba ityala lingena njani emzimbeni wakho? Kuqhelekile ukuba ngumama, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba uyilawula njani kakuhle.

Ngaba abantwana bakho basebenzisa idatha yeselfowuni ukukhangela i-Intanethi kwezixhobo ze-elektroniki? Nciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwedatha yakho!

Usenokuba ukhe weva ukuba ukuba nabantwana kuya kukwenza ube mdala okanye kukwenze uzive umbi ...

Ukuba unomhlobo, ilungu losapho, okanye umntu omkhathaleleyo onomntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa, yile ndlela onokuthi unike ngayo uncedo lwakho.

Ukuba uza kuqhawula umtshato, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulawule iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uphephe ulungelelwaniso lwabazali kangangoko.

Iitekhnoloji ezintsha zinxibelelana nehlabathi kodwa zikunqamle kweyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu: kusapho lwakho nakubantwana bakho ... tshintsha loo nto!

Ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki yokulungelelanisa kwaye ibangela uxinzelelo oluninzi ukujongana notshintsho ebomini, yile nto kufuneka uyenze kwaye uyazi.

Oomama abahlala ekhaya banokuba neengcinga eziphikisanayo ngamanye amaxesha ezibenza bazive bedidekile ...

Ukufundisa abantwana ngokutya okusempilweni kubalulekile ukuba babe nobudlelwane obusempilweni nokutya. Ngaba uyazi ukuba njani?

Uqhawulo-mtshato alukho lula nakubani na, ngakumbi kubantwana. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka ukuba kubekho uxolelwaniso lweemvakalelo phakathi kwamaqela.

Ngaba ukhe wakutyeshela ukuziphatha komntwana wakho ngenxa yokuba wayengaziphathi kakuhle? Fumanisa ukuba kulungile nini ukuyenza kwaye xa unganyanzelekanga.

Iibhaluni ezibonakala zingenabungozi kumatheko abantwana zinokuba yingozi ukuba azisetyenziswanga ngokufanelekileyo.

Ukuhamba usuka enkulisa uye kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi linyathelo elikhulu kubantwana, bafuna inkxaso yakho ukwenza yonke into ibe lula!

Ukuba ubungumama womtshato wesibini kuba iqabane lakho langoku linabantwana nomnye umntu ... Ungangumama olungileyo onala macebiso.

Olu luntu lufuna ukunyamezelana kwaye yonke into iqala ngokufunda emakhaya. Fumanisa ukuba ungabakhulisa njani abantwana abanyamezelayo kusapho.

Kungenzeka ukuba abantwana bakho bafuna ukubonisa ukuba ngoobani amagcisa kwaye bakugcwalisa ngemizobo yonke imihla, ...

Ewe unokuba ngumama wendalo kulo nyaka u-2019, kwaye kwanga abantwana bakho bangafunda ukuba ngumbulelo omnye kumzekelo wakho!

Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ufunda ukusebenzisa imbiza ... musa ukumohlwaya okanye umthethise xa evuza! Fumanisa ukuba kutheni kungcono ukusebenzisa ezinye izixhobo.

Inkqubo yesiqhelo yasekuseni inokubangela uxinzelelo kunaluphi na usapho, ke kuyimfuneko ukwenza umboniso omncinci kunye nokuphucula ukuvusa.

Ngamanye amaxesha ukuba neqela loluntu elikwenza uzive ulungile akufuneki kube ngokwasemzimbeni. Fumanisa ukuba izangqa zentlalo ezikwi-intanethi zilungile kukhetho loomama

Ukugcwala ekhaya kuqhelekile ... Kwezi mfihlelo zoomama nootata, ziya kuba zizitshixo zokutshintsha!

Iiholide zeKrisimesi zidlule ngokukhawuleza kwaye mhlawumbi kwezi ntsuku zokuqala emva kokubuyela esikolweni kwaye ...

Ukuba ungumama, ungaphoswa zizinto ezi-3 ekufuneka uzenzile kulo nyaka ukuze ube ngumama ongenaxinzelelo kwaye wonwabe.

Xa kuziwa kwizihlangu zesikolo, kuya kufuneka uthathe izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kuphuhliso olufanelekileyo lwenyawo ...

Ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ukuba ngumama kwaye wenze abantwana bakho bonwabe ecaleni kwakho, ke ungaphoswa zezi ndlela zokukhupha ii-endorphins ezininzi emzimbeni wakho.

Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo na okanye hayi ukuba abantwana babo balwe kangaka ... Babecinga ukuba bazakuvana ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala! Kwaye akunjalo.

Andiqinisekanga ngento onokuyinika umama okanye utata? Ezi zimvo zesipho azinakusilela kuni, yeyiphi oyikhethayo?

Ngaba uyayazi imbali yezikhonkwane? Libali elihle elinokunceda abantwana baqonde ifuthe lomsindo wabo ebomini.

Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ngaphakathi kwezikhundla zabo ukuba yintoni intlupheko nokuba ingabachaphazela njani abantu. Ungamfundisa njani ngale nto?

Ngaba ucinga ngokuthenga imoto kodwa ungazi ukuba ujonge ntoni? Ungaphuthelwa zezi ngcebiso! ukhuseleko kuqala.

Kuyimfuneko ukwazi ukuba ungayincoma njani indlela yokuziphatha kwabantwana ukuze babone ukuba yinto yokuncoma yokwenyani. Oku kuya kubanika ukuzithemba nokuzithemba.

Abantwana kufuneka badlale imidlalo ukuze babe sempilweni, kwaye wena njengomzali unembopheleleko yokubabonisa indlela!

Ukuba uziva uphelelwe ngamandla, uxinezelekile ... ungxolisa abantwana bakho kakhulu okanye ulile ungathethi. Mhlawumbi kufuneka uthathe ikhefu ebantwaneni bakho.

Ukuba uphelelwe ngumsebenzi, kufuneka uxelele abantwana bakho ... Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba UNGATHINI. Ngale ndlela uyakwandisa ukuzola.

Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uziva unomsindo xa unxibelelana nabantwana bakho? Kuya kufuneka ucinge kabini ngaphambi kokuba usebenze. Thatha amanyathelo ngomsindo hayi kubantwana bakho.

Ukuze abantwana bafunde ukuba noxanduva, kubalulekile ukuba ubafundise ngenkululeko yabo yokuzikhethela.

Kushiyeke okuncinci ukuba iiholide zeKrisimesi zifike! Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba, kuba ngezi ngcebiso inokuba lixesha lemibhiyozo ngaphandle koxinzelelo okanye ukungabikho kolawulo.

Ulusu lomntwana lubuthathaka kakhulu, ke kuya kufuneka uziqwalasele ezi zinto ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe iimpahla zomntwana wakho. Ngale ndlela uya kukhathalela ulusu lwakho olubuthathaka!

Ukuba abantwana bakho kufuneka batshintshe izikolo nangasiphi na isizathu, kuya kufuneka ubancede baqale kakuhle.

Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungamenza njani umntwana wakho abe 'luhlaza'? Ukugcina iplanethi lishishini lomntu wonke kwaye umntwana wakho kufuneka afunde indlela yokwenza!

Akukho lula ebantwaneni ukwamkela umntu ogcina umntwana, ke ngezi ngcebiso unokukwenza kube lula kakhulu.

Ngaba uqhawule nje umtshato kwaye unabantwana okanye ungumama ongatshatanga kwaye ucinga ukuba awusoze uphinde ube nezihlobo? Akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani!

Ukuba ungumfazi nomama, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubambekile kwindima yakho yokuba ngumama, kodwa enyanisweni, ungaphezulu kakhulu!

Abantwana banokuzama ukuthuka ukuze bafumane ingqalelo, kodwa yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uyeke lo mkhwa mbi?

IHalloween iyeza kwaye abantwana bakho ngokuqinisekileyo bafuna ukunxiba kwaye babe nexesha elimnandi. Ungaphoswa zimbono ezithile zesinxibo sabantwana!

Ngaba ucinga ukuba ungangutata ogqibeleleyo okanye umama ogqibeleleyo? Ukonwabela ngokwenene ukuba ngumama / ukuba ngutata, kuya kufuneka uyisuse le ngcinga.

Ukuba ungumama oxakekileyo ocinga ukuba akanakukhathalela ubuhle bemihla ngemihla ... impazamo! Ngezi ngcebiso zisisiseko, uya kuba mkhulu!

Imifanekiso engamanyala, ngaba inokuchaphazela ubudlelwane phakathi komtshato? Ukubukela iphonografi kunokuba nezinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga.

Ukuba ufuna ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lokuba ngumama (kunye nokuba ngutata), ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zokuziphumeza. Iya kutshintsha ubomi bakho!

Kubalulekile ukuba usindise abantwana bakho ebuntwaneni ngoxinzelelo oluninzi kakhulu ... Kufuneka uphume kuqala kulomjikelo ukhohlakeleyo wobomi obunoxinzelelo.

Abantwana abasebenza ngakumbi eklasini banokuthiwa 'kukungaziphathi kakuhle' nangona kukhulu ...

Wonke umntu uthethile into ebuhlungu ngamanye amaxesha, wenza ukhetho olubi okanye waziphatha kancinci ...

Kukho amanyathelo alula okulungiselela usuku lokuzalwa komntwana wakho ngaphandle koxinzelelo olukhulu kakhulu. Ngethemba lokuba izakulunga!

Ukuxubha amazinyo kunokuba ngumzabalazo wemihla ngemihla kubazali abanabantwana abancinci, kodwa ukuba uyayonwabisa, yonke into izakulunga!

Ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni, xa kusenzeka ngootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Nangona iinyosi kufuneka zenze indima yazo, ngumsebenzi wosapho.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ootatomkhulu noomakhulu babamonele abanye ootatomkhulu noomakhulu? Kwaye ukuba kunjalo ... Kutheni le nto isenzeka kwaye kungcono ukwenza ntoni ukuthintela oku kungonwabi?

Ukuxhaphaza yingxaki enkulu ekuhlaleni kwaye into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile ukujongana nayo kukwenza ngokuziphindezela.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ulixhoba lokuxhatshazwa okanye wazi umntu okwaziyo, kufuneka wazi ukuba ungasabela njani kwezi meko.

Ngaba ukhathazekile kuba umntwana wakho engaziphathi ngendlela obungathanda ukuba aziphathe ngayo? Umntwana wakho akunyanzelekanga ukuba abe nguwe! Kananjalo akufuneki ukuba ufune ukuba ...

Abantwana bakho akufuneki babe ngumlamli phakathi kwakho ne ex yakho. Sebenzisa ubuchwephesha obutsha okanye ube nolwalamano oluhle omnye komnye.

Iifoto zosapho zibalulekile ukuba ube nemvakalelo efanelekileyo yokuba ngowakho. Abantwana bakho bafuna iifoto zosapho zibekwe kakuhle!

Ngaba udiniwe kuba umntwana wakho akayithandi imifuno kwaye awazi ukuba yintoni enye onokuyenza ukuyenza ayithande? Funda eli nqaku ... ukuqheleka sisitshixo!

Ukuba ngumama ayisiyonto ilula ... Nangona kuyeyona nto inomvuzo, kufuneka ufunde ukulawula iintsuku ezimbi ukuze zingakutshisi ngokweemvakalelo.

Ukuba abantwana bakho bayoyika ugqirha wamazinyo, ungaluzolisa olo loyiko ngala mabinzana okanye ezi ndlela. Olu loyiko luya kuba yinto yexesha elidlulileyo!

Ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumzali ulungile, kuya kufuneka uzibuze le mibuzo mihla le kwaye wazi ukuba ungayifumana njani impendulo.

Ngaba uziva ungalunganga kuba abantwana bakho bachitha ixesha elininzi phambi kwesikrini? Nangona kungakulunganga ukusebenzisa gadalala, musa ukutyeba ngale ...

Ukuba ufuna ukufundiswa nokukhuliswa kwabantwana bakho kuchanekile, ke wena kunye neqabane lakho kufuneka nibe yinto emanyeneyo.

Ootatomkhulu banokuba ziindwendwe ezifanelekileyo ekhayeni labantwana bakho, ukuba ulandela ezi ngcebiso! Utyelelo luyakuba mnandi kwaye uya kushiyeka ufuna okungakumbi.

Wothukile kuba ubuyele esikolweni ulapha ungazi nokonga kanjani? Ngezi ngcebiso uyakubona kulula kunokuba kubonakala ngoku.

Umsebenzi wasekhaya unokwenziwa ngabantwana abasusela kwiminyaka emi-3, njengokuchola iithoyi zabo. Kodwa iqala kwiminyaka emi-5 xa unomntwana ophakathi kweminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-10 ubudala? Ewe yile nto kufuneka uyazi malunga nemisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukuyenza.

Kubazali abaninzi, ukulala ubusuku bonke ngexesha yinto elula. Ngaba ulala kakuhle ebusuku? Kubonakala kungenakufikeleleka.

Abantwana banokufumana uloyiko ngokungenangqondo kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu. Uloyiko lwezinja lolunye lwezona zixhaphakileyo. Ndincede ndigqithe kuyo.

Njengomzali uziva ufuna ukukhusela umntwana wakho. Lonke unxweme. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo emhlabeni. Akukho mntu uthanda ukufumanisa ukuba abantwana babo banaye Ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa esikolweni, unokufuna ukubiza abazali bomxhaphazi. Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ubatsalela umnxeba?

Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho angakuxelela ukuba utitshala wesikolo, inqununu okanye abanye abantwana bakhohlakele kuye, kodwa awukho ukuze ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho uziva ngathi kukho iingcali kwezemfundo ezingaziphathi kakuhle kwaye azive ekhatywa. , Kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye.

Ngoku ukuba isikolo siqala kwiiveki ezimbalwa, esi sikhalazo siqhelekile ukuva kwizigidi zabantwana kwihlabathi liphela. Kodwa kunyanzelekile.Abantwana abaninzi bangakuxelela ukuba bayadika esikolweni, ukuba bayaphinda-phinda amaxesha amaninzi, kuya kufuneka ulumkele ezinye iingxaki.

Namhlanje baninzi abantwana abatyebe kakhulu okanye abatyebe kakhulu, kangangokuba isiba sisisongelo sempilo kwihlabathi. Umntwana onokunceda abantwana bakho babe sempilweni kwaye baphephe ukutyeba nokutyeba kakhulu. Ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda ufike apho.

Xa ungumama, utshintsha umbono wakho ngobomi phantse kwangoko, ngaphandle kokuqonda. Abahlobo bokwenyani bahlala, abo babengenjalo.Ukuba nabanye abafazi njengabahlobo abangoomama kulungele ukonwabela ukuba ngumama. Baza kukuzisa izinto ezininzi!

Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ukuba ngutata olungileyo ohlangabezana neemfuno zabantwana bakho, kuya kufuneka ugcine engqondweni ukuba ulonwabo aluyonjongo, ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bonwabe ecaleni kwakho ... ke uya kuthi kufuneka ulandele ezi ngcebiso yonke imihla yobomi bakho.

Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuhlala ekhaya kwaye ungasasebenzi kwakhona ukukhathalela abantwana bakho kunye nekhaya lakho, unoxinzelelo kwimini yakho!

Ukuba neentloni kunye nokuzazisa akufani, nangona kunokubonakala kufana. I-introvert iyalonwabela ixesha lilodwa kwaye iba nefuthe ngokwasemoyeni emva.kukho abazali abanobunzima bokwahlula phakathi komntu oneentloni kunye nomntwana ongenisiweyo, kodwa xa kufikwa kwisingeniso, unganceda?

Ukuba uhlala ukhwaza abantwana bakho yonke imihla, kuya kufuneka uyeke ukukhala ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awenzi njalo, uya kube uhambisa ukungonwabi kwakho kwi Ngaba uhlala ubangxolisa abantwana bakho? Ungaphoswa ziziqhosha ezi-5 zokuyeka ukuyenza ukusukela NAMHLANJE. Ungayifumana ukuba ubeka ingqondo yakho kuyo!

Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhubazekile kungenzeka ukuba khange kube nzima kuwe, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwindlela omelana ngayo nokukhubazeka komntwana wakho aza kujongana nako.Umntwana wakho ukhubazekile akufuneki abe ngumqobo kulonwabo lwakho. Mnike izicwangciso zokujongana nale meko.

Abantwana bakho bafuna ukuba uqinisekise iimvakalelo zabo ukuba bayazi ukuba ukhathalele iimvakalelo zabo nganye, kufuneka ubakhaphe ngalo lonke ixesha lobomi babo. Ukuze abantwana bakho bafunde ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo, into yokuqala kukuba uqinisekise iimvakalelo zabo ukuze babone ukuba zibalulekile!

Imvakalelo oyifumanayo xa umama esazi ukuba ubisi lwakhe lubonelela usana lwakhe konke okunezakha mzimba aludingayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo lukhulu.Ukuba ufuna ukwandisa ubonelelo lwakho lobisi lwebele kuya kufuneka ulutye oku kutya ukonyusa ubisi emabeleni akho .

Kunzima kutata okanye umama xa umntwana esenza isigqibo esibi, kodwa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba enze impazamo kungamfundisa isifundo Iziphumo zendalo zezona zifundisa abantwana ukuba babulele kakhulu ngokubanceda babonakalise izigqibo ezithathiweyo.

Ukuba ngabazali akukho lula kwaye kunokubangela iingxaki kwisibini, ngenxa yesi sizathu, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zomeleza umtshato.

Ukuba umntwana wakho kunzima ukulala ebusuku, kukho izinto onokuzenza kunye nezinye ongafanele uzenze ukuphucula ukulala kwabo.

Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba baziphathe ngendlela eyiyo akufuneki kube yinto engenakwenzeka. Ngezi ngcebiso kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe.

Kuqhelekile ukuba ngumama okanye ukuba ngutata ukukucinezela, kodwa ukuba uziva uxakekile, kuya kufuneka usebenzise ezi ngcebiso.

Umsebenzi wasekhaya luxanduva losapho lonke, ukusuka kubazali ukuya ebantwaneni. Wonke umntu unesakhono sokusebenzisana kuzo.

Iintsuku zinokudinisa, kodwa enyanisweni xa kuphela usuku lufikile ungonwabela eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini: uthando lwabantwana bakho.

Kukho iinyaniso ezingaboniswanga kwiincwadi zokubeleka kodwa kufuneka uyazi ukuba yintoni kanye kanye ukuba ngutata okanye umama.

Ehlotyeni kunye nabantwana abakwiholide, unokufuna ukufunda ukubetha ubushushu ngale misebenzi yolonwabo.

Abantwana baya kufunda ukutya kakuhle enkosi kubazali babo, yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphucula indlela yokutya yabantwana babo.

Uninzi lwabazali lujonga ulwazi malunga nempilo yabantwana kwi-Intanethi ngaphambi kokubonisana nogqirha wabantwana, kodwa yintoni ekufuneka uyazi?

Ukuze abantwana bakhule ngokuchanekileyo baya kufuna inkxaso yakho, ukuqonda, uvelwano nokuba uyaziqonda iimvakalelo zabo.

Xa sithetha ngesizukulwana esithi 'mna' sibhekisa kwisizukulwana esizithandayo nesizithandayo. Abantwana ba ...

Ukuba negunya lokukhulisa abantwana bakho ngentlonipho ngaphandle kokuba bakoyike kunokwenzeka. Zolisa ingqondo yakho kwaye wandise iimvakalelo zakho.

Ixesha leemviwo linzima kubantwana bakho, kodwa nakwintsapho ngokubanzi. Kodwa unyana wakho uyakudinga ecaleni kwakhe ukuze ufumane okuninzi kuye.

Ukuba ngumama kuyamangalisa kwaye abantwana banika olona thando lukhulu lokuba umama kufuneka onwabe. Nangona nje…

Sele kusele okuncinci ukuba kuphele unyaka wesikolo. Ngaba uyayazi into oza kuyenza xa sele usebenza kwaye abantwana bakho akufuneki baye esikolweni?

Abantwana bakho kufuneka balazi ixabiso lemali kwaye baqonde ukuba kubiza malini ukuyifumana. Imali, ngelishwa, ayiwi esibhakabhakeni.

Ukuba ungutata okanye ungumama, kunyanzelekile ukuba uthathe ingqalelo yokuba kufuneka ukhathalele ubudlelwane bakho nentlalontle yosapho.

Iimveliso zobisi zibaluleke kakhulu ekutyeni kwabantwana bakho njengoko zingumthombo omkhulu wecalcium. Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungazitya njani ngcono?

Ukuba ufuna ukulwa nokukhusela ukubanda kubantwana bakho nangaliphi na ixesha lonyaka, ke ungaphoswa ngala mayeza endalo.

Kukho iingcinga ezoyikisayo onokuba ubukhe unazo nabantwana bakho amatyeli ambalwa ... ungakhathazeki! Kuqhelekile!

Ngaba ucinga ngokuqala ukonga iikholeji yabantwana bakho? Emva koko ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zibalulekileyo kuwe nakwimali yakho.

Ukutyeba kakhulu emntwaneni yingxaki yezentlalo echaphazela ngqo iintsapho nabantwana ... Ngokudibeneyo, kunokuthintelwa kwaye abantwana banempilo engcono.

I-Intanethi iluncedo kwaye inika umdla kulutsha nakubantwana, kodwa kukwakho nemingcipheko yokwenene. Abazali kufuneka ...

Fumanisa ukuba yintoni ixabiso losapho kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ebomini bakho. Inye kuphela usapho kwaye ukuyinyamekela kubalulekile kubo bonke.

Abantwana (kunye nawo wonke umntu ehlabathini) kufuneka bafunde ukuba noxanduva lwezenzo zabo. Ukulungiselela imvakalelo elungileyo kunye nentlalontle elungileyo.

Njengomama omtsha, unokufumana iingcebiso ezininzi ... Ungaphoswa zezi zi-5 ukuze uthathe ubunyama bakho ngcono.

Abantwana abazalwanga benencwadi yemiyalelo, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba babenolwazi lokuba ngabazali ukuze bakwazi ukufundisa ngokuchanekileyo. Yintoni omele uyigcine engqondweni?

Ootata abaninzi noomama abaninzi bafuna ukuba abantwana babo babe yimizekelo, kodwa zeziphi izitshixo ekufuneka bezifundile ngaphambi kokungena kweli hlabathi?

Kukho oomama abonzakeleyo, oomama abangenalo ithuba lokuva 'umama', kodwa baziva ezintliziyweni zabo. Oomama abanabantwana babo abancinci ezulwini.

Kukho iimfihlo zosapho kwikhaya ngalinye, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwindlela abazijonga ngayo, banokudala iingxaki okanye babe ngamathuba okukhula komntu wonke.

Ukuze abantakwabo bathandane kwaye bavane, kubalulekile ukuba bafundane ukuncedana njengabantakwabo abalungileyo, ke ngoko ubudlelwane babo obukhulu buya kuqala!

Ukuba ulusapho olunomntwana omnye kuphela, ungaphoswa zizo iimpendulo ezingathandekiyo. Kwaye ukuba unomntwana ongaphezulu kwesinye, ezi zimvo azifunyanwa kakuhle ziintsapho ezinomntwana omnye kuphela.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukonwabela indlela kunye nabantwana yi-utopia, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zokwenza uhambo lwendlela lube mnandi kuwo wonke umntu.

Ungazi njani ukuba umntwana wakho une-PTSD kwaye ungamnceda njani? Ungaphoswa leli nqaku ukwazi konke oku.

Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho balale ngaphandle kwezilo ebumnyameni kwaye bazive bezolile kwaye bekhuselekile xa bengena ebhedini, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso!

Ukuba abantwana bakho abayithandi imisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye ibenza ukuba benze i-cranky, jonga ezi ndlela zokuyila ukuze ubakhuthaze ukuba benze umsebenzi wesikolo.

Ukuqaphela i-allergies kwiintsana kunokuba yinto enzima, ke kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuqaphela ezona mpawu zibalulekileyo.

Bobabini ootata kunye noomama banokwenza iimpazamo ngelixa beqhuba nabantwana babo ngasemva. Kufuneka uqaphele kwaye ubaphephe.

Ukuba ungomnye wabazali abothuswa kakhulu xa abantwana benomkhuhlane, kuya kufuneka niyazi yonke le nto.

Ukuba ungumama oxakeke kakhulu kwaye uxinzelelo luthatha indawo, zive ukhululekile ukuthatha imizuzu eli-10 ngosuku ukucamngca kwakho.

Kukho amaxesha apho amagama angadingeki ukuthuthuzela. Khetha enye yezi ndlela zintathu zokuthuthuzela abantwana bakho (okanye bonke) ngaphandle kokufuna ukuthetha.

Intombi yomtshato wesibini kunye nomama womtshato wesibini akufuneki zitshabalale ukuba wenza eyakho indima ukutshintsha inyani.

Fumanisa ezinye izicwangciso onokuzenza ukuze uchithe ixesha elimnandi nosapho lwakho ngexesha leeholide zePasika. Khetha eyona uyithandayo!

Fumanisa ukuba kutheni ootata noomama befaka iifoto zabantwana babo kwimidiya yoluntu ... ingaba kulungile ukwenza njalo? Yintoni eyona nto iphambili?

Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho baqhubeke nokufunda, kufuneka ube ngumzekelo olungileyo kwaye ungaze uyeke ukufunda kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.

Ukuba ungutata okanye umama ngoko ezi nyaniso aziyi kukumangalisa ... okanye mhlawumbi baya kuthi! Fumanisa iinyani ezi-5 zokuba nabantwana namhlanje.

Ukuba ungutata okanye umama, yinto ephambili ukuba ube nexesha lokuzonwabisa kunye neqabane lakho. Kungale ndlela kuphela apho unokugcina ingqondo yakho iphilile.

Kukho amaxesha apho uxinzelelo lomama lukwenza uzive ungalunganga ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba njalo. Fumana ezinye iimfihlo zokuziva ulungile nokuba uziva uxinezelekile amaxesha ngamaxesha.

Ngaba uziva ukuba ekubeni ungutata okanye umama, ubudlelwane neqabane lakho bunokuchaphazela iqabane lakho kwaye ulwalamano lwakho alusafani?

Ukuba udiniwe yimihla yakho yesiqhelo okanye yesiqhelo, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zokuguqula usuku oluqhelekileyo lube lusuku olungaqhelekanga.

Uxolelwaniso losapho lubaluleke kakhulu kungekuphela kubazali abafuna ukuhlala ngaphandle koxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, kodwa ...

Ukuba abantwana bakho bayathanda ukunxiba i-Carnival kwaye abayibhiyozeli esikolweni, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso ukuze nabantwana bakho bazonwabele.

Awazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ubandakanyeke kubomi besikolo sabantwana bakho okanye into ekufuneka uyikho? Ungaphoswa leli nqaku.

Oomama abangatshatanga nabo banokuthandana, kodwa kubo ukwenza njalo badinga izinto ezininzi, kwaye abantwana babo baya kuhlala beza kuqala.

Ixesha elibandayo kunye nomkhuhlane lifikile, ke ungaphoswa kukutya ekufuneka kutyiwe lusapho lonke ukukhupha okanye ukukhusela.

Ukuba kuya kufuneka uthenge izinto zesikolo sabantwana bakho, ungayenza apha enyakeni ngaphandle kokuchitha kakhulu ngezi ngcebiso.

Ukuba ngumama kuyinto entle kodwa unenkxalabo yobuqu kwaye uyayifumana, nayo. Ngaba ukuba ngumama kuyahambelana nokuba neenjongo kunye neenjongo?

Ukuba ngumama kunye nokuba ngumama ophilayo kakhulu akuhambelani nokuziva ukhululekile amaxesha ngamaxesha. Yonwabele inkululeko yakho, ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala.

Baninzi ootata noomama abasebenzisa ukukhwaza njengendlela yokuqeqesha abantwana. Kodwa ukukhwaza akufundisi konke konke.

Ukuba awunalwazi ngokutya okunesondlo kwisidlo sasemini sabantwana bakho, ungaphoswa zezi zinto banokuzitya yonke imihla.

Ukuba ufuna ukukhulelwa, ungaphoswa koku kutya kufanele ukukubandakanya ekutyeni kwakho ukuba ufuna ukukhulelwa kwaye ukonwabele impilo yakho.

Iintlungu zesisu ebantwaneni ziqhelekile, ke abazali kufuneka bazi izizathu ezinokubangela, iimpawu kunye nonyango.

Ukulala ngesondo emva kokubeleka akuyona into enokwenziwa ngokukhawuleza. Umfazi kufuneka azilungiselele ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.

Ukuxabana phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo akufuneki kubanjelwe phambi kwabantwana kuba kunokubangela iingxaki zeemvakalelo. 

Bonke abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya ekhaya kuba bebancinci kakhulu, kodwa ... yeyiphi ehambelana ngokobudala?

Ngaba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho azithembe ngakumbi? Ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso kwaye uqalise namhlanje.

Ngaba uyafuna ukuthenga ibhasikithi yosana kodwa ungazi ukuba uza kuthenga ntoni? Kuya kufuneka uphephe ezinye iimpazamo kuqala!

Abazali bafanelwe luthando lwabantwana babo, kwaye ngoku ungumama ungaluqonda uthando lokwenyani abanalo ngawe. Ungayibonisa njani eyakho?

Kule nqaku sikunika izitshixo kunye neengcebiso zokufumana kwakhona inani lakho emva kokugqithisa okuninzi okwenzeke ngeKrisimesi.