NgeCawa, umhla wesi-6 kuCanzibe, ngo-2018, luSuku looMama. Usuku apho kubhiyozelwa uthando oluviwa ngoomama ngamnye kweli hlabathi. Uthando, ewe, aluthathi nje usuku olunye ngonyaka, Ukuba akunjalo, uthando lukamama lufanele luboniswe iintsuku ezingama-365 ezikwikhalenda.
Intliziyo kanina yeyoonyana bakhe, kuthi akumitha, ingabi seyakhe intliziyo. Umama unentliziyo eyahluleleneyo ebantwaneni bakhe. Kodwa kukho abafazi abaye bakhulelwa kodwa abazange bababambe iintsana zabo ezingalweni zabo, abazange babe nolo ncumo lokuqala, okanye loo mihla yokuqala yokuzalwa, okanye ukucaphuka kokuqala. Aba mama banqwenela yonke le mizuzu bephupha ngayo kodwa bengonwabanga, banqwenela ukuva 'umama' kwimilebe emincinci.
Oomama basentlungwini yokulahlekelwa
Umama obhujelwe ngumntwana naye ungumama. Kwakhona kufuneka bazive bephila ubomi obonwabisayo. Kodwa ubomi busenokungabi mnandi, nangona befanele ukuba uSuku loMama lube kubo, kuba babevakalelwa kukuba kwakunjani ukuthanda umntu okhulela esibelekweni sabo, kwaye bayayazi into yokubandezeleka ngendlela ebuhlungu ngendlela emangalisayo. laa ntwana incinane yabalekela esibhakabhakeni.
NgoMhla woMama, thanda unyana wakho osezulwini, kwaye unokumbonisa ngazo zonke ezi ndlela:
- Xela igama lomntwana wakho. Ukuba ufelwe ngumntwana, chaza igama lomntwana wakho. Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo onokuthi ubenzele yona ngolu suku: xela igama lomntwana wakho. Baya kukhunjulwa abantwana bakho emazulwini. Unokuziva ungonwabanga, kodwa awusoze umlibale kwaye yiyo loo nto uSuku loMama lukwakho.
- Ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumntwana wakho ekuphela kwakhe, uSuku loMama lukwalungiselelwe wena. Uyakuhlala ungumama nokuba ulahlekelwe ngumntwana okuphela kwakhe. Uya kuhlala ukho nokuba umntwana wakho akakho ezingalweni zakho. Khumbula oku ngonaphakade. Ufanelwe loo ngqalelo, kuba intlungu yakho iyinyani kwaye ayiyi kuhamba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ixesha elingakanani lidlula.
- Nokuba unabanye abantwana, intlungu yakho iseyinyani. Nokuba unabantwana abaninzi kangakanani, awusoze uyilibale intlungu yokufelwa ngumntwana, nokuba akazange alifumane ithuba lokuzalwa.
- Intliziyo yakho ibaluleke ngokufanayo. Nabani na ofuna ukuba ngutata okanye umama kwaye akanakuba… intliziyo yakhe kufuneka yaziwe. Kukho abafazi abaphila ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla ngephupha lokuba nabantwana abangazange bazalwe, kodwa ababathanda ngeentliziyo zabo zonke.
Kuba ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumntwana wakho okanye uninzi lwabo, uyazi ukuba yintoni imvakalelo yokuba ngumama. Uyazi ukuba kuyintoni ukuthanda omnye umntu ngaphezu kwakho, ngenxa yokuba uye wabandezeleka ngokungenakunyamezeleka kwaye ufanele ukuhoywa ngale mini.