Amaxesha anzima kuye nawuphi na umntwana ofikisayo okanye umntwana ofikisayo. Yonke into abayifundileyo kunyaka wesikolo kufuneka iboniswe kwiimviwo. Kodwa izinto ezininzi zinempembelelo kwiimviwo kunolwazi olufundwayo; imeko yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo zabantwana zikwabalulekile ukuze uviwo luphumelele.
Ngokunjalo, abantwana bakho kufuneka bazi ukuba ayisiyiimvavanyo kuphela okanye amabakala abalulekileyo kuphuhliso lwabo (amabakala alinani nje kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokungahambi kakuhle ngenxa yezinto zangaphandle). Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngaphambi kokuthatha uviwo ngumzamo osele uzamile ukwenza okusemandleni akho. Eyona nto kufuneka ubethelele ebantwaneni bakho kukukhula kunye nokuzama. Ukuba uyaphosisa, iplanethi iya kuhlala ijika ukuze ube nethuba lokufunda kwiimpazamo zakho.
Ukubandakanyeka kwakho kubalulekile
Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali, inkxaso kunye nenkuthazo idlala indima ebalulekileyo kwimpumelelo yemfundo yabantwana. Ngokubanzi, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo zempumelelo kukuzibophelela, ukulawulwa kwexesha elifanelekileyo, ulungelelwano phakathi komsebenzi kunye nokudlala, ukulala ngokwaneleyo nokwenza umthambo… kwaye kunjalo nokutya usempilweni. Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso eziphambili ukuze abantwana bakho baphumelele ngcono kwiimviwo zabo ngenxa yokuzibandakanya kwakho.
- Thatha inxaxheba emsebenzini womntwana wakho, kwiiprojekthi nakwizifundo zakhe. Bonisa umdla kwaye ubakhuthaze.
- Mamela unyana wakho Xa ekuxelela ukuba unoxinzelelo, sukuyilibala loo nto.
- Mxelele ukuba uya kuhlala ecaleni kwakhe ukuze bafune uncedo kuyo nantoni na abayifunayo.
- Gcina ulindelo olusengqiqweni ngokubhekisele kubuchule bomntwana wakho.
- Vumela abantwana bakho ukuba benze iimpazamo kwaye ufunde kubo, ngaphandle kokuphendula gwenxa kubo.
- Vumela umntwana wakho afunde ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokufunda kwimeko ethile.
- Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bangaguquguquki Kuba abancami kutshintsho lokuqala, kodwa kuya kufuneka ubakhuthaze ukuba bathathe ikhefu kwaye bonwabele ixesha labo lasimahla.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abuze malunga neengcinga abangaziqondiyo. kwaye phakathi kwaba babini, fumana indlela yokuqonda umxholo ngokuchanekileyo.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho unobunzima ekufundeni, jonga okwenzekayo kuye, ukuba kukho imfuneko funa uncedo kwi-psychopedagogue pUkukukhokela ekufundeni.
- Gcina umsebenzi olungileyo wesikolo kunye nokufunda rhoqo, ke abantwana baya kuqonda ukuba izinto ezilindelweyo kunye noxanduva ziyahambelana.
- Hlala wehlile. Xa uzolile kwaye umthemba umntwana wakho, naye uya kuba njalo kwaye athembe awakhe amathuba.
Ngokulandela ezi ngcebiso zingasentla, uya kuba nakho ukunika umntwana wakho inxaxheba efanelekileyo ukuze azive exhaswa nguwe ngawo onke amaxesha. Khumbula ukuba amanqaku owafumanayo kuvavanyo ayisiyiyo eyona nto ibalulekileyo, kodwa ngumzamo owenzayo. Nangona ubona ukuba uzama kakhulu kwaye iziphumo zingahambi ngayo, kuya kufuneka uphinde ufune uncedo lwengqondo.