Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho baziphathe ngokuchanekileyo, ungalindeli ukuba benze njalo esikolweni kuba befunda esikolweni, kodwa wena njengotata okanye umama kufuneka ubafundise abantwana bakho. Abantwana bakho bafuna isakhiwo esizinzileyo kwaye kufuneka uhambisane nengqeqesho engaguquguqukiyo.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba xa ufundisa abantwana bakho ubanike izikhumbuzo eziqhubekayo malunga nemiyalelo ukuze bazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kubo ngawo onke amaxesha. Ngokuziqhelanisa ngokwaneleyo umntwana wakho uya kuyiqhela imithetho kunye neziphumo zokuyaphula (kuba iziphumo akufuneki zingabikho). Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, gcina indlela yokusebenza ekhayeni lakho kuba isiphithiphithi esincinci sihlala singumqondiso wokuphucula isimilo. kunye nokunciphisa isimilo esingxamisekileyo.
Ukulibazisa ukulibaziseka
Abantwana bafuna amathuba okuziqhelanisa nokulibazisa ukoneliseka. Oku kuthetha ukudala inkqubo yomvuzo wokuvuza ngokuziphatha okuhle ngamava anjengokuya epakini, ukuthatha uhambo lweempelaveki zosapho, ukuya kwiimuvi, njl.
Unokwenza iinkuthazo ezincinci ezifuna kuphela ubuso obunoncumo obuli-10 (imivuzo emincinci enjengokuya epakini okwethutyana okanye ukutya i-ayisi khrim), kunye nembuyekezo enkulu, efuna ubuso obunoncumo abangama-20 okanye abangama-30. Emva koko khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba asindise ekufumaneni ubuso obunoncumo ukuze abenemivuzo emikhulu njengokuya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya.
Ukugcina kunye nokuba nomonde kweyona mivuzo mikhulu kuya kukunceda uziqhelise ukulibazisa ukoneliseka. Obo bubuchule obuya kukunceda ukuba uxhathise izilingo ezinokukhokelela kukhetho olungxamisekileyo.
Yiba ngumzekelo omhle
Umntwana wakho uya kufunda okuninzi malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kakuhle ngokukujonga. Ngesi sizathu, kuya kufuneka ubonise imilinganiselo yokuziphatha efanelekileyo ofuna ukuyibona ibonakaliswa ebantwaneni bakho. Yalatha ubuchule bolawulo obusebenzisayo njengokuphefumla nokubala ukuya kwi-10 ngaphambi kokuba uphendule xa unomsindo. Phuma ubethwe ngumoya okanye umxelele ukuba ufuna umatrasi omtsha kodwa kuya kufuneka ugcine imali ukuze uwufumane.
Ukuthetha ngokwakho kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuncedeni abantwana balawule indlela abaziphethe ngayo ngokungxama. Umzekelo othethayo ngendlela esempilweni kwaye elungileyo ufuna imodeli yakho, umzekelo ungatsho izinto ezinje: "Lo mgca mde kakhulu, kodwa siya kuba nomonde de ibe lithuba lethu lokuhlawulela ukuthenga."Ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo kuya kufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angayenza njani incoko yangaphakathi eya kumnceda akwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zakhe.
Ezi zezinye zezicwangciso eziyimfuneko ukuze abantwana bakho bafunde ukuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo nokuba amaxesha okuxabana ekhayeni lakho anciphe. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uyazi ukuba yeyiphi indima yakho kwimfundo yabantwana bakho ukuze ucinge ngokukhula kwakho kwaye ukuba ubona ukuba kukho into engalunganga, yazi ukuba ukwazi ukuyiphucula. Abantwana bakho bafanelwe yimbeko nothando lwakho olungenamiqathango. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uzame yonke into kwaye awuphuculi isimilo sabantwana bakho okanye awusayazi enye into ekufuneka uyenzile, kuyakufuneka uye kumcebisi wosapho ukufumana ingcebiso.