Kungenzeka ukuba xa usuku luphelile, wena kunye neqabane lakho nidiniwe ngokwenene, ningabazali ... Ukwabelana ngesondo nokuba kucwangcisiwe okanye kulindwe abantwana ukuba balale. Inokuba luxinzelelo kwisibini esitshatileyo ukuba singafumani xesha lodwa, kangangokuba ubudlelwane bunokuthotywa.
Abantwana bafuna abazali babo banxibelelane ngokwasemphefumlweni, kuba ngale ndlela baya kuziva bonwabile ngobomi ababuphilayo kwaye baya kuba nakho ukonwabela ubomi obugcweleyo ngeendlela zonke.
Jongana nokudinwa
Xa ungumzali wosana, umntwana okanye ngaphezulu komntwana omnye, ukudinwa akunakuphepheka. Utata nomama baya kuhlala bediniwe, kuba uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla lunyanzelekile kwaye yonke into kufuneka yenziwe. Abantwana bafuna ukukhathalelwa kwaye abazali bayalibala ukuba ukongeza ekubeni ngabazali ikwangabantu kunye nabantu abatshatileyo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukumelana nokudinwa. Ungayenza njani xa kukho iiyure emini? Fumana ixesha lokuthatha isofa esofeni, uphumle uhleli okanye ulele neqabane lakho, umthambo okunceda ukuba uzive ubaluleke ngakumbi, njl.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba awuvumeli ukudinwa kukuthabathele kuwe nakubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Nokuba uziva udiniwe, khumbula ukuba yinxalenye yobomi kwaye kubalulekile ukuba kamva wonwabele amaxesha okuphumla njengentsapho.
Nxibelelana neqabane lakho
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ungalibali ukuba aningobazali babantwana abafanayo kuphela, nikwabakwisibini kwaye kufuneka ukhathalele isibophelelo sakho ... kungekuphela nje ukulunga kwesibini, kodwa nokulungiselela usapho.
Ngesi sizathu, kuya kufuneka ufumane iindlela zokunxibelelana neqabane lakho kwaye ngale ndlela ubudlelwane bakho beemvakalelo abuhlupheki nangayiphi na indlela. Thatha ithuba lokulala kwabantwana ukunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwesondo, Sukuvumela ilangatye lakho lothando ukuba licime! Ukuba udiniwe kakhulu ukuba ungabelana ngesondo, ungenza eminye imisebenzi yokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo, ezinje ngokulala esofeni, ukuwolana, ukukhukhumala, ukuthetha malunga nokuba lwalunjani usuku, ukuba nezincoko, njl.
Umbono wokunxibelelana neqabane lakho kukuba nobabini ninebhokisi etafileni esecaleni kwebhedi kwaye yonke imihla, niyabhala inqaku lothando okanye lenze kube kanye ngeveki. Emva, cNgamnye kubo ngokwakhe unokufunda ngasese loo manqaku othando ukuze avuselele unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo onalo omnye komnye.
Sukuvumela izinto oqhele ukuzenza ukuba zicime uthando lwakho, okanye ziloyise ukuba zilale. Kuyimfuneko ukuba nobabini niyenze indima yenu kwaye ninkcenkceshele isityalo sothando yonke imihla ukuze singabuni. Uthando lufana nesityalo ukuze sikhule sisempilweni kwaye somelele kufuneka usondle ngokuseza yonke imihla ... Awungekhe unkcenkceshele kakhulu kuba emva koko iingcambu ziyabola, kodwa awungekhe ulibale ukuyinika nokuba yeyokuba iya kubuna. Isitshixo kukunkcenkceshela isityalo sakho sothando, kunye neenkcukacha ezincinci zemihla ngemihla (njengokwenza ukutya, ukunika umyalezo kancinci okanye ukuwola ukuze uzive usondele).