Ulawulo lweemvakalelo lubonisa ukunxulumana kweemvakalelo, ukuqonda kunye nokuziphatha. Ukukhula kokuqonda kwabantwana abancinci kunye nobuchule bokusebenzisa ulwimi kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo ngokweemvakalelo, kuvula iindlela ezintsha zokunxibelelana, ukulawula iimvakalelo, kunye nokunceda abantwana bathethathethane ngeziphumo ezamkelekileyo kwiimeko eziphazamisekileyo ngokweemvakalelo ngeendlela ezisebenzayo.
Ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo kuphenjelelwa yinkcubeko
Ukulawulwa kweemvakalelo kuthonywa yinkcubeko kunye nexesha lembali apho umntu ahlala khona: ukuhluka kwenkcubeko kwiinkqubo zokulawula kubalulekile. Iinkcubeko ziyahluka ngokokuba yintoni Kulindeleke ukuba uzive, nini, phi kwaye nabani na iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ezinokuvakaliswa.
Abantu abadala banokunika imizekelo emihle yokulawula iimvakalelo ngokuziphatha kwabo nangenkxaso yomlomo neemvakalelo abayinika abantwana ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Ukuphendula kwiimpawu zeentsana kunegalelo ekuphuhliseni ukulawulwa kweemvakalelo. Abantu abadala baxhasa uphuhliso lwabantwana lolawulo lweemvakalelo ngokunciphisa ukuvezwa koxinzelelo olugqithisileyo, Imekobume esiphithizelayo okanye ngaphezulu okanye phantsi kovuselelo.
Izakhono zokulawula iimvakalelo zidlala indima ebalulekileyo
Izakhono zokulawula iimvakalelo zibalulekile ngokuyinxenye kuba zidlala indima kwindlela abantwana abathandwa ngayo ngoontanga babo, ootitshala nendlela ababonwa benobuchule ngayo ngokwentlalo. Ukukwazi kwabantwana ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo ngokufanelekileyo kunokuba negalelo kwimbono yabo yezakhono zabo zoluntu ngokubanzi, kunye nomlinganiselo abathanda ngawo oontanga babo.
Ukungalawulwa kakuhle kweemvakalelo kunokuchaphazela indlela abacinga ngayo abantwana, kuthomalalise indlela abacinga ngayo nokwenza izigqibo. Ekungeneni kwisikolo sabantwana, abantwana babonisa ukuguquguquka okubanzi ekukwazini ukuzilawula.
Umzekelo entsatsheni
Ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo kubalulekile kubomi babantwana kuba kuxhomekeke kwindlela abafunda ngayo ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo ngoku, baya kukwazi ukuphucula indlela abaziphatha ngayo kwixesha elizayo. Ukubaluleka kosapho kulo mba kusisiseko kuba abantwana befunda kwimizekelo abanayo. kwaye bayibona imihla ngemihla emakhayeni abo.
Ukuba abanawo umzekelo ocacileyo wokulawula iimvakalelo ekhaya, abantwana abayi kukwazi ukufunda ukwenza oko bebodwa. Iimvakalelo azibonakali kakhulu ebantwaneni ngoko ke kufuneka bafunde ukuziqonda, bazikhankanye kwaye. Yazi ukuba zithetha ukuthini ebomini bakho. Ngale ndlela, abazali banoxanduva lokusebenza kwiimvakalelo zabo kwaye xa sele beyazi indlela yokulawula ngokweemvakalelo, Baya kwandula ke babe nobuchule bokufundisa abantwana babo ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo.
Lo mmiselo weemvakalelo unenzuzo kuphela, kuba uya kunceda ukwenza ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu bube neziqhamo ngakumbi kwixesha elide kunye nelifutshane, kwinqanaba lobuqu kunye nelobuchwephesha kwikamva labo bantwana baya kuba ngabantu abadala. Kuya kuba luncedo nakubazali abathi, ngokuqaphela ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo, Baya kukwazi ukuba nolwalamano olungcono nabo kunye nabanye.
Enkosi ngenqaku lakho, ndilifumana linika umdla kwaye lichanekile, ngakumbi xa ndikhankanya ukuba iimvakalelo kwiintsana zifundwa ngomzekelo.
Abantu abadala kufuneka bakuqonde ukubaluleka kokufunda ukuzilawula ngokufanelekileyo iimvakalelo zethu ukuze kuxhamle thina kunye nabantwana abaselugcinweni lwethu.