Iingcinga zikamama zinokutshintsha ukusuka ekuvukeni ekuseni ukuya kulala ebusuku. Banokuba neemvakalelo ezixubekileyo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kwaye ayimangalisi loo nto. Ukuba ngumama ngumsebenzi weeyure ezingama-24, iintsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka kwaye nangona kuyadinisa, yeyona nto intle kakhulu ukuba umfazi ofuna ukuba ngumama abe nayo ebomini.
Ndineemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo
Mhlawumbi ukuba neemvakalelo ezixubeneyo kunezinto ezithile ezilungileyo nezingalunganga. Umzekelo, (pro) umama unokuziva ukuba ukuhlala ekhaya kunokuba yeyona ndlela iphantsi kwezinye iintsapho kunokuba ahlawule ukhathalelo lwabantwana, igesi, ulondolozo lweemoto, ukucoca okomileyo, ikhabethe, isidlo sasemini, njl. Kodwa Kwakhona (umrhumo) umvuzo wezoqoqosho wabantu ababini ungcono kuqoqosho losapho.
Kubalulekile ukuba xa uneemvakalelo ezixubeneyo malunga nento ekufuneka uyenzile okanye ukuba ukuhlala ekhaya akukuhle ngendlela obucinga ngayo. iiakhawunti eziphantsi kolawulo. Ungabandakanya usapho lwakho ukuba luqwalasele ukufumana izaphulelo kunye nezibonelelo xa uza kuthenga.
Lithini inqanaba loxinzelelo lwam?
Uxinzelelo kwindawo yokusebenza lunokuhamba, kodwa ubomi buhlala busizisa isixa esithile soxinzelelo ... kuba ngumsebenzi oqhubekayo, wemihla ngemihla kunye nokungayeki. Unokucinga (pro) ukuba uyayithanda yonke imiba yokuba ngumzali kwaye ungancuma ngaphakathi xa umntwana wakho ekwimowudi yokudibanisa epheleleyo, inqanaba lakho loxinzelelo kunokwenzeka ukuba libe sezantsi kakhulu Ungathini xa unokhulisa usapho lwakho ngelixa usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya ...
Kodwa ke enye ingcinga iyakuhlasela (ngokuchasene) kwaye abantwana banokuba ngaphezulu kwesikhalazo, umlo kunye nokuziphatha gwenxa ... Unokuba noxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo ngenxa yokuncipha kwemali.
Ukulinganisa oku kwaye uzive uxinezelekile, kuya kufuneka usebenzise iindlela zolawulo loxinzelelo, ezinje ngemithambo yokuphefumla, ixesha elizolileyo, okanye ukucamngca. Ungayifundisa le nto ebantwaneni bakho ukuze bafunde ukulawula uxinzelelo lwabo.
Ndinembono eyahlukileyo ngobomi xa ndingekho nabantwana
Ubomi bakho boluntu buya kubona utshintsho olukhulu njengoko ugxile kulo. Ungazi (pro) abanye abantu abaninzi abahlala ekhaya baphele ngokuba ngabahlobo bakho, kwaye unokwenza ubusuku bamantombazana okanye oomama emva kwemini ... njengekhefu elincinci ngelixa usabelana ngamava aqhelekileyo.
Nangona kusenokwenzeka ukuba (njengoko ilawula) awenzi zinto zininzi njengoko ubusenza ngaphambi kokuba ngumama. Ukufezekisa ukulingana kwezi ngcinga kungcono ukuba ugcine unxibelelwano nabanye abazali Ukwabelana ngokuzonwabisa kwabo, umdla wabo kunye neengcinga zabo.
Nangona okona kulungileyo kuko konke kukuba wena nabantwana bakho ninento elungileyo ebomini benu ... niyazonwabela iinkqubo kunye neeshedyuli ezilungelelanisiweyo!