Umsebenzi womzimba ubalulekile kubantwana abancinci ukuze bakhulise izakhono ezininzi. Ukuphuhliswa kwezi zakhono zeemoto kukwadlala indima ebalulekileyo kwezinye iinkalo zobomi bomntwana wakho, njengokukhula kwabo ngokwasekuhlaleni nangokweemvakalelo okanye ukukhula kwabo kwengqondo.
Umzekelo, xa befunda ukuphulula okanye ukuwola, bafunda kwaye bakhulise uthando, ukudibanisa kunye nezakhono zentlalo. Xa bebeka iithoyi ngaphezulu komnye nomnye okanye besenza iipateni, bafunda ukucinga okufanelekileyo kunye nezakhono zokusombulula iingxaki. Njengoko ziqengqeleka, zijinga, zijija kwaye zilungelelanisa, zikhulisa izakhono zazo zemidlalo kunye nokulungelelaniswa kweemoto.
Ngaba abazali banokukunceda ukukhula ngokomzimba?
Abazali babaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni abantwana babo ngokukhula ngokomzimba kwinqanaba lokuqala. Zombini izakhono ezihle nezipheleleyo zemoto ziphuhliswa ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Kubalulekile ukufumana ulungelelwaniso phakathi kokubanceda baphuhlise izakhono zabo nokubayeka badlale ngokukhululekileyo kwaye ziphuhlise ngokuzimeleyo.
Ukukhuthaza uPhuhliso loMzimba kwiintsana nakwiintsana
Zininzi izinto onokuzenza njengomzali ukukhuthaza ukukhula komntwana wakho. Njengoko bafunda ukuthatha izinto, beka into yokudlala okanye into phantsi kwaye bayeke bayifumane. Oku kuyakubakhuthaza ukuba baphuhlise izakhono zabo zokuqhuba kakuhle.
Ixesha lesisu nalo libaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana wakho. Banike ixesha suku ngalunye lokuchitha ixesha kwizisu zabo. Njengoko bekhula badlale umdlalo kaSimon uthi ukubanceda ukuba bazi ngakumbi ngamalungu abo omzimba.
Abantwana bayakuthanda ukudlala ngentlama yokudlala. Ukwenza njalo kuyabanceda ukuba bahlakulele izihlunu ezincinci kwiminwe yabo, kodwa ikwavumela ukuba baphuhlise icala labo lokuyila. Iibhodi zezikhonkwane Zizinto zokudlala ezinkulu zokunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukubamba izinto kunye nokuphuhlisa ulawulo.
Khuthaza ukukhula ngokomzimba kubantwana abasaqala isikolo
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba adlale ngaphandle ukuze amncede aphuhlise izakhono ezibi kakhulu zemoto. Ukudlala esantini nasemanzini yindlela entle yokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba akhule njengoko ekhula. Bafunda ukulawula ngcono izihlunu zabo njengoko besakha ngesanti kwaye bedlala emanzini.
Ukudlala ngeebhloko kunefuthe elifanayo kubo, kodwa kuyabanceda baphuhlise izakhono zokucinga ezinamandla. Ungadlala umdlalo wokuphosa kunye nokubamba nomntwana wakho. Oku kuyabanceda baphuhlise ukulungelelaniswa kwamehlo kunye nokugxila.
Ukuzoba okanye ukupeyinta kubanceda baphuhlise izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto kunye nokusika okanye ukwaphula izinto. Benzele iimilo ukuba bazobe okanye basike, ze ubacele ukuba bazame ukusondela emgceni kangangoko. Oku kuvumela ukuba babe nolawulo olungcono kwimisipha esezandleni zabo.
Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zemoto yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yamanqanaba okuqala obomi bomntwana wakho. Nguwe owenza umahluko njengomzali ngokubanceda bakhule ngokwasemzimbeni. Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uchitha ixesha yonke imihla uziqeqesha kwaye ukudlala nabo ukubanceda bakhule bomelele kwaye bazimele.