Iinethiwekhi zentlalo ziyinxalenye yobomi bezigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela. Yindlela elula yokunxibelelana nabantu abasondele kuwe kunye nabo bakude. Abantwana bakhule bekubona oku kubazali babo kwaye, xa bekwiminyaka elungileyo, nabo bafuna ukwenza kwa le nto babone ukuba bayenziwa ngabazali babo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo.
Nangona inokuba sisixhobo esikhulu sokunxibelelana, inokubangela unxunguphalo kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo. Ngenxa yokuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni, ukuxhaphaza i-intanethi, ukuphawula ngenkohlakalo kwiintanethi zentlalo ... Konke oku kunokuba ngumtshabalalisi weemvakalelo kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo. Iingxaki abazali ababengazikhathazi ngazo kumashumi eminyaka adlulileyo ngoku ziba ngamaphupha amabi.
Imidiya yoluntu kunye noxinzelelo
Okwangoku kukho iingxaki ezinje ngokubona ifoto esondeleyo esikolweni, ukubona imifanekiso yomhla wokuzalwa kwi-Instagram apho abantwana babengamenywanga, njl. Kuba impilo-ntle yabantwana yedijithali yinkxalabo, unxibelelwano olunokubakho phakathi kwemithombo yeendaba zentlalo kunye nokunyuka kwamazinga okuzibulala kulutsha, iziyobisi kwitekhnoloji, kunye nelahleko yezakhono zobomi bokwenyani ziyaqwalaselwa. Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza: ngaba amajelo eendaba ezentlalo ayamxhalabisa umntwana wam?
Kuya kufuneka uzibuze lo mbuzo kuba eneneni zizinto ezixhalabisayo namhlanje. Nangona kusekutsha kakhulu ukuba ungqinisisa i-100%, inokunxulunyaniswa nokusetyenziswa kweinethiwekhi zokunxibelelana kunokunxibelelana noxinzelelo abanalo abantwana nolutsha namhlanje. Kukwakho nabo baya kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo ukuzola iimvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye nokufuna inkxaso.
Ukusetyenziswa kothungelwano lwentlalo ebuntwaneni kuyimfuneko ukuyithathela ingqalelo. Ngokwesiqhelo abantwana kunye nabakwishumi elivisayo bayayisebenzisa ukuzithelekisa nabanye okanye ukufuna ingxelo ngendlela yokuthanda. Oku kuhambelana ngokuthe ngqo neempawu zokudakumba ezihamba kunye noxinzelelo.
Ukuxhalaba ngamanye amaxesha kuyinto eqhelekileyo
Ukuxhalaba ngamanye amaxesha akufani nokuba nesifo sokukhathazeka esifuna uncedo lweengcali. Ukuba umntwana wakho unexhala elingalawulekiyo okanye elingenangqondo elingahambiyo, uqala ukunqanda izinto, abantu okanye iimeko, emva koko ukukhangela ingcali ukumnceda azinzise iimvakalelo zakhe kunyanzelekile.
Abanye abantwana, imithombo yeendaba zentlalo inokuba sisisulu soxinzelelo njengoko banokuba novakalelo ngakumbi kwinto evezwe kuyo. Kukwakho nabantwana abathi, ukuba banexhala ekuhlaleni, bakhethe ubudlelwane ngokusebenzisa iinethiwekhi kunasebusweni, kodwa ngale ndlela abanakuze baphume kwindawo yabo entofontofo.
Awunakuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unexhala ngenxa yenethiwekhi kude kube kuvela iingxaki, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba ube nemfundo elungileyo yedijithali ukuze oku kungenzeki. Ukhuseleko kwi-Intanethi lubalulekile kwaye kubekwa esweni okwenziwa ngabantwana bakho kwi-Intanethi, nabo. Ungalibali ukwenza kusebenze ulawulo lwabazali.