Siyazi. Siyazi ukuba uyabathanda abantwana bakho ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uthando alonelanga kwaye ezinye iintlobo zezinto ziyafuneka ukuze ziphinde zihlaziye iibhetri kwaye wonwabele ingqondo esempilweni. Asitsho ukuba uhamba ngaphandle kwabantwana bakho iveki uye kwelinye ilizwe kwaye ulibale ngabo, akukho nto iyinyani inyani.
Iholide ngaphandle kwabantwana inokuhamba ngolunye usuku uye elwandle kunye neqabane lakho okanye niyokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa nabahlobo. Mhlawumbi ucinga ngeholide xa udiniwe njengaxa uvukile amaxesha ama-5 ebusuku kwaye umntwana wakho usekuseni okanye xa unezinto ezininzi omele uzenze ekhaya emva kosuku olude usemsebenzini. Kuqhelekile ukuba ucinge malunga nexesha ngaphandle kwabantwana, ungaziva ungonwabanga ngaloo nto.
Nangona kunjalo, inyani yemeko yeyokuba uninzi lwabazali, umbono weholide engenamntwana uhlala uyinto engekhoyo. Zininzi izizathu zokuba ungayenzi: imali, iinzame ezibandakanyekileyo ekukhuliseni abantwana bakho, inkathalelo yabo, ixhala malunga nokuba yintoni engahambi kakuhle… uluhlu olusentloko lwabazali luyaqhubeka njalo. Kuya kufuneka uyitshintshe le ngqondo njengabazali kuba izizathu zokuthatha iholide engenamntwana ziyanyanzeleka ... Ungaphoswa zizizathu ezithile zokuba kutheni kulungile ukuba neholide engenamntwana.
Kutheni iholide ngaphandle kwabantwana ingumbono olungileyo
Abantwana bafuna indawo yabo, njengawe
Nika abantwana ithuba lokuba bazenzele izinto okanye benze izinto ngokwahlukileyo xa bekhathalelwe ngabanye abantu abadala Ibavumela ukuba bakhule ngendlela abangakwaziyo ngayo xa yonke into isiqhelo kwaye iqikelelwa.
Unokwazi ukuqhagamshela kwakhona neqabane lakho ngendlela eyahlukileyo
Nokuba ulunge kangakanani ekubekeni phambili ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho, amathuba kukuba uninzi lwamaxesha usabeka abantwana phambili. Ukuphuma ngamaxesha ngamaxesha kunye neqabane lakho kuya kukwenza uzive uqhagamshelene ngakumbi. Ixesha elincinci labantwana liya kukunceda ukuba uqhubeke ubume bakho njengesibini ... uya kuba ne-reomance engcono, ukusondelelana kwaye uya konwaba ngakumbi.
Abantwana bakho baya kuba nethuba lokuchitha ixesha nabanye abantu
Kwaye abanye abantu banokubaluleka kubo, njengootatomkhulu noomakhulu okanye oomalume. Akukho lula ukushiya abantwana bakho nomnye umntu, kodwa ukuba kukho umakhulu notatomkhulu othembekileyo okanye umakazi okanye umalume okanye umhlobo okhoyo wokugcina abantwana, abantwana bakho baya kuba nethuba lokubazi kwinqanaba elitsha. Baza kuba nethuba lokudala iinkumbulo ezintsha kwaye bomeleze ubudlelwane babo ngendlela engenakwenzeka ngenye indlela.
Ikufanele
Ukuya eholideyini nabantwana bakho asikuko iholide yokwenene kuwe… Isenokuba ikhefu emsebenzini wakho, kodwa akukho ndlela yakubaleka ngokuba ngumzali. Uchitha iiyure ezininzi ugcina imisebenzi yobuzali kunye nezigqibo kunayo nantoni na ebomini bakho. Ezo yure aziniki ngxelo ngomsebenzi wabazali ngokweemvakalelo. Ukukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ubeke iinyawo zakho phezulu kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho yengqondo. Kukuzinyamekela okona kungcono.