Ukuyila kubalulekile kwimpumelelo, ukonwaba kunye nokufikelela kwiinjongo ebomini. Uninzi lucinga ukuba uyilo yinto ozalelwe nayo okanye hayi, kodwa enyanisweni, sisakhono esinokufundwa kwaye sikhuthazwe ukusuka ebuntwaneni. Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bayithathele ingqalelo indima yabo ebalulekileyo ekukhuleni koyilo ebantwaneni babo.
Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokukhuthaza ubuchule kubantwana bakho, siza kukunika ezinye izimvo ukuze ubone ukuba kulula kunokuba ucinga.
Ukubonelela ngezixhobo ezifunekayo kwintetho yoyilo
Owona mthombo uphambili apha lixesha. Abantwana badinga ixesha elininzi lokucinga, ukungacwangciswanga, umdlalo okhokelwa ngumntwana, ngaphandle kokuthintelwa sisikhokelo sabantu abadala, kwaye loo nto ayixhomekekanga kwizinto ezininzi zeshishini.
Isithuba siso nesibonelelo esifunwa ngabantwana bakho. Ngaphandle kokuba ungabinangxaki yokugcwala kuyo yonke indawo, banike indawo ekhethekileyo apho banokwenza khona ubumdaka, njengegumbi kwigumbi lakho eliphezulu ukuze unxibe indawo kwigaraji yokupeyinta okanye kwikona kwigumbi lakho losapho kwiLegos.
Ngexesha elizayo xa umntu ebuza isiluleko sesipho sabantwana bakho, cela izinto ezinje ngobugcisa, iikhamera ezingabizi kakhulu, izinto ezinento yokwenza nezinto zokwakha. Beka kwizikhongozeli ekulula ukuzisebenzisa ukuze abantwana bakho babenako ukufikelela kubo nanini na befuna.
Yenza imeko yoyilo ekhayeni lakho
Ukongeza kwizithuba zokuyila, kuya kufuneka ukhuthaze imeko yoyilo. Cela umthamo omkhulu weembono ezahlukeneyo, Kodwa uxhathise umnqweno wokuvavanya izimvo abantwana bakho abaza nazo.
Ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa, umzekelo, unokucinga ngezimvo ngemisebenzi yempelaveki ezayo, ukhuthaza abantwana ukuba benze izinto abangazange bazenze ngaphambili. Musa ukubonisa ukuba zeziphi izimvo ezingenakwenzeka kwaye ungathathi sigqibo sokuba zeziphi izimvo ezilungileyo. Ujoliso lwemisebenzi yoyilo kufuneka ikwinkqubo: ukuvelisa (vs. ukuvavanya) izimvo ezintsha.
Khuthaza abantwana ukuba benze iimpazamo
Ewe, Bayasilela: Abantwana aboyikayo ukusilela kunye nomgwebo baya kunciphisa ukucinga kwabo kuyilo. Yabelana ngeempazamo ozenzileyo kutshanje, ukuze bafumane umbono wokuba kulungile ukuguqula izinto. Ukuzihleka xa ungalunganga luphawu oluhle lokonwaba.
Bhiyozela ubuchule kunye nokuyila
Gquma iindonga zakho ngobugcisa kunye nobunye ubungqina bokubonisa. Xelela abantwana bakho ngabaculi obathandayo, iimvumi kunye nososayensi. Yabelana ngokuthanda kwakho uyilo okanye ukufota okanye iqela elitsha ofuna ukumamela ngalo lonke ixesha. Yamkela iitekhnoloji ezintsha ezinje nge-Twitter ukuze abantwana bakho bakhule kwaye bafumane utshintsho olunomdla, hayi ukoyikisa okanye ukoyikisa.
Vumela abantwana ukuba babe nenkululeko
Ivumela abantwana inkululeko kunye nokuzimela ukuba baphonononge izimvo zabo kwaye benze nantoni na abayifunayo. Musa ukuba ngumphathi. Yeka ukuhlala kuloyiko lokuthinjwa okanye ukungangeni kwiyunivesithi enkulu. Ngokwezibalo, amathuba okuba bathimbe aphantsi kakhulu ... Izithintelo zangaphandle zinokunciphisa ubhetyebhetye kwindlela yokucinga.