Wonke umntu uthethe into ebuhlungu, wenze ukhetho olubi, okanye uziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga. Undoqo kukuba bathathe uxanduva kolo khetho… kwaye Umntwana wakho naye kufuneka athathe uxanduva nokuba ulixhoba okanye ungumxhaphazi wokuxhatshazwa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomhlobo oxhaphaza isikolo kodwa akafuni ukuyivuma, mkhuthaze ukuba ayeke ukwenza izizathu zokuziphatha okubi komhlobo wakhe. Abahlobo abasempilweni bayayiqonda ihambo yabo embi baze bamkele uxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Kwelinye icala, abahlaseli abafuna uncedo olungxamisekileyo ngokwasengqondweni abakwenzi oko.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomhlobo onje ebomini bakhe, kufuneka baqhawule amaqhina ngokukhawuleza kwaye baqhubele phambili. Ukwamkela izizathu zokuziphatha kakubi kuya kuvumela omnye umntu ukuba aqhubeke ephatha umntwana wakho ngokungekho sikweni. Ayingomhlobo lowo, ngumgqakhwe.
Philisa inxeba leemvakalelo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa kuya kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho ukuze akuncede uchonge abantu abaqeqeshelwe impilo yengqondo abafanelekileyo abanokunyanga umntwana wakho. Sukuba neentloni ukucela uncedo ngale nto kuba iyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo.
Akukho mntu ufikelela ebuntwini obukhulu ngaphandle kokuba nemiba ethile efuna ukuqwalaselwa ize isonjululwe, kwaye abacebisi bayaqeqeshwa ukuze bancede kule miba. Ukongeza, abantwana abaninzi abaye baxhatshazwa banengxaki yokudakumba kunye nexhala ... Iingxaki ezinokuthi zibe yingozi kakhulu kwaye zibe yingozi ukuba aziphathwanga yingcali.
Kungcono ngaphandle kwempindezelo ... gxininisa ekuxoleleni
Kungumnqweno wemvelo ukufuna impindezelo nokuzama ukumenza abandezeleke kuqala umntu osonileyo. Imvakalelo yokuthotywa idla ngokuba nomnqweno ozenzekelayo wokufuna ukuziphindezela. Umele ukhumbuze umntwana wakho ukuba ukuziphindezela akusayi kumenza azive bhetele. Okufanelekileyo kwezi meko kukugxila ekuxolelweni kwangaphakathi. Akanakubekwa tyala kwaye umxhaphazi uhlasela ngenxa yokuba uneengxaki zeemvakalelo ezingasonjululwanga. Ukuziphatha kwabo akuthetheleleki nangayiphi na indlela, akwamkelekanga okanye kufanele kunyanyezelwe. Kodwa Ukugxila ekuxolelweni kuya kunceda umntwana wakho azive enamandla ngakumbi kwimeko kwaye aphume kule ngqungquthela yeemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ezibathuthumbisa kakhulu imihla ngemihla ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuxolela kufuna umonde kunye nexesha. Ukuxolela akumkhululi lowo uhlaseleyo kwizenzo zakhe ezimbi, kuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ayeke ukucinga ngento eyenzekileyo kwaye akwazi ukuqhubela phambili.
Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba akanakuze abe yedwa
Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba usenokuziva elilolo ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa akanakuze abe yedwa ngokwenene. Ukungcungcuthekiswa ngokufuthi kwenza abantwana abangcungcuthekiswayo bazive bengamalolo, bengenathemba yaye besesichengeni. Nangona ezi zizenzo eziqhelekileyo zokuxhatshazwa, umntwana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba akayedwanga ngokwenene. Mkhumbuze ukuba unenkxaso yakho kunye nenkxaso yabahlobo bakhe. YINYANISO.
Yenza nantoni na efunekayo ukuze unciphise iimvakalelo zobulolo bomntwana wakho kwaye uqinisekise ukuba uyafumaneka nanini na xa efuna.