Umsebenzi wasekhaya unokwenziwa ngabantwana ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-3, njengokuchola iithoyi zabo. Kodwa iqala kwiminyaka emi-5 xa umsebenzi wasekhaya kufuneka usetyenziswe njengenxalenye yemihla ngemihla yabantwana. Abantwana abancinci banjalo, kokukhona kufuneka babe neliso elibukhali kwaye njengoko bekhula baya kuba nakho ukuzenzela ngakumbi.
Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa imisebenzi kubuchule babantwana kunye nento ekufuneka yenziwe. Umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya wonyusa ukuzithemba kwabantwana, uyabafundisa. Ukubaluleka kokwenza umsebenzi olungileyo kwaye uwugqibe, uxanduva, ukubaluleka kokugcina izinto zicocekile kwaye zilungelelaniswe, njl. Ukuba awuyazi imisebenzi yasekhaya ekufuneka yenziwe ngabantwana ngokweminyaka yabo, ungaphoswa lolu luhlu.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya kubantwana aba-5 ukuya kwiminyaka esi-7 (ngoncedo de babe nolwazi)
- Tshayela phantsi
- Yendlula
- Coca igumbi
- Gcina iitawuli
- Tyisa izilwanyana
- Misela itafile
- Nceda uhlambe ubeke izitya
- Coca itafile
Umsebenzi wasekhaya iminyaka eyi-8-10 (ngoncedo de ube nolwazi)
- Konke oku kungasentla ngokuzimela nangaphandle koncedo
- Gcwalisa i-dishwasher kwaye uyiqale
- Gcina ukuthengwa
- Yenza isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini okanye isinekhi
- Ukuhlamba iimpahla (umatshini wokuhlamba impahla)
- Hlanganisa ukuhlamba
- Ukuhamba kwesilwanyana sasekhaya kufutshane nasekhaya
- Ukubumba egadini
- Nceda upheke
- Uncedo ekuthengeni usapho (bafundise ukukhetha ukutya okusempilweni kwaye baqonde ukusetyenziswa nokuphathwa kwemali)
Yintoni enye ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba bonke abantwana bafuna ukunceda, ke kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise lo mnqweno wendalo ukuze abantwana bafunde ukwenza izinto. Ungaze umnyanzele ukuba enze into angafuniyo ukuyenza, Kungcono ukuyenza ibe mnandi kwaye ibe nomtsalane kunokufuna ukuyenza ngokuzithandela.
Imivuzo kunye nenkuthazo ikwayindlela entle yokufumana abantwana ukuba bafune ukunceda. Umzekelo, unokuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba unokufumana inkwenkwezi kuwo wonke umsebenzi awenzayo, kwaye Ekupheleni kweveki, unokukhetha umvuzo osapho, onje ngokwenza into yokonwatyelwa ngumntu wonke okanye eyonwabele eyedwa.
Ukuba uthi uyadika okanye akakwazi ukuyenza eyedwa, mbuze ukuba uyafuna ukwenza izinto nawe okanye umcelise umngeni wokuba azive ekhuthazekile. Mbuze malunga nokuba yeyiphi imisebenzi afuna ukuyenza endlini okanye yeyiphi emkhuthaza kakhulu. Ukuba ubona ukuba into inzima kakhulu okanye iyingozi kwiminyaka yakhe, jonga enye indlela. Ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana wakho ufuna ukukunceda wenze isidlo sangokuhlwa kodwa kuyingozi kakhulu kuye ukusebenzisa izixhobo zasekhitshini, ungamcela ukuba akuncede ubeke izithako endaweni yazo.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umsebenzi wesikolo uyonwabisa ebantwaneni kwaye uyabancoma ngokwenza izinto kakuhle. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nangona inokubabiza ekuqaleni, ngokuhamba kwexesha baya kuqala ukuphucula, ukuziqhelanisa kuya kubanika ithuba lokwenza izinto zibe ngcono kubo. Lutyalo-mali lwexesha elide. Kwaye ungalibali ukuncoma imizamo kunokuba neziphumo!