Bonke abantwana baziva kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zabo kodwa abayiqondi okanye abayazi ukuba bathetha ntoni ... Kuyimfuneko ukuba abazali babe ngabakhokeli kwaba bantwana kufuneka bafunde indlela yokuziphatha kunye nendlela yokuziqonda ukuze bathathe isigqibo ngezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini babo. Enye indlela yokufundisa abantwana kukuba ngumzekelo, ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo.
Ixhala
Nangona enye indlela kukusetyenziswa kwamabinzana anokufundisa abantwana ukuba baphinde babuye iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwaye batshintshe iingqondo zabo kwimizuzu nje embalwa. Ixhala lihlala lifika ngokungalindelekanga kwaye Uguqula umzuzu woxolo ube kwimeko engathandekiyo. Akunomahluko kubantwana.
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umntwana wakho uthambekele kwiimvakalelo zokukhathazeka rhoqo okanye uphuma nje ngamanye amaxesha. Nje ukuba uxinzelelo lufike ngaphezulu, kuyothusa ... kwabo baziva kwaye nakwabo bakugcinayo.
Umzekelo ziintsasa ezinesiphithiphithi seentsapho, apho imithambo-luvo kuba ihambile inokuphela ngoxinzelelo phakathi kwamalungu ayo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba abantwana bakho bayoyika ngezinto ezenziwa kusasa, ngumzekelo wokuba nako ukubafundisa ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo zokungazinzi. Ukuqinisekiswa okanye amabinzana ayimfuneko ukuze usebenze ngezi mvakalelo zinzulu… Abantwana baya kuqala ukuziva belawula umhla wabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukwenza oku besebancinci kubanceda ukuba baqonde ukuba iingcinga zabo zinempembelelo enkulu kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
Athini amabinzana
Amabinzana yindlela elula kodwa esebenzayo yokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Uqinisekiso ngumthandazo olungileyo oqinisa iimvakalelo ezikhuthazayo. Isekwe kumgaqo wokuba i-subconscious mind inokubamba ingcinga enye ngexesha kwaye iya kuhlala iyamkela eyona ngcinga yomeleleyo. Xa iphindaphindwe, ingxelo iguqulwa ngokuzenzekelayo kweyona ngcinga inamandla, yiyo ke leyo ephumelela ngaphezulu kweengcinga ezimbi kunye nexhala.
Apha ngezantsi uyakufumana uluhlu lwezinto endizithandayo. Ngexesha elizayo abantwana bakho baziva bexhalabile, bancede batshintshe iingcinga zabo ukusuka kwiingxelo zokuzibetha ezonakeleyo ukuya kwiingxelo ezilungileyo.
Khetha uqinisekiso apha ngezantsi uze uluphinde kunye namaxesha angama-21. Unokuziva utshintsho olululo kwiimvakalelo zakho:
- Ndikhululekile kwaye ndilawula iimvakalelo zam.
- Namhlanje izakuba lusuku oluhle
- Ndigxile kwaye ndikhululekile ngalo lonke ixesha.
- ndikhetha Ukonwaba
- Yonke imihla ndingcono kwaye ndingcono.
- Ndikhululekile kwaye ndizolile
Ezi zingqinisiso ziya kufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqondise iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwaye atshintshe indlela abecinga ngayo kwimizuzu nje embalwa ... Kungenxa yokuba khumbula, nangona ukuqinisekiswa kubalulekile, umzekelo wakho uya kuhlala ubaluleke ngakumbi ekukhuliseni abantwana bakho. Ngaba sowuyazi into oza kuyithetha kubantwana bakho namhlanje?