Xa kufika ixesha lokulunyulwa, uloyiko oluninzi, amathandabuzo kunye neenkxalabo zivela. Kwelinye icala, iimvakalelo zokwemvelo zibonakala zikwenza ucinge ukuba wenze isigqibo sokuzingca. ingayiyo ngokweemvakalelo awukulungelanga ukuluqhawula olo manyano ikhethekileyo, yodwa phakathi kukamama nonyana. Kodwa ngexesha elithile kufuneka kwenzeke, kuba awukwazi ukuncelisa umntwana wakho ngonaphakade.
Akukho mntu unokukubekela ixesha elibekiweyo, akukho mntu ugqibayo ngawe, nguwe nowakho umntwana kuphela abanokugqiba ngalo mba. Ngeso siseko kwaye naziphi na izizathu zakho, nokuba umntwana mdala okanye umncinci, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ibe lukulunyulwa olunentlonipho ngamaxesha onke. Ngale ndlela, kuya kwenziwa ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ngaphandle kokudala nayiphi na ingxaki kumntwana.
Yintoni ukulumla kunye nendlela yokwenza intlonipho emntwaneni
Ukulunyulwa lixesha apho umntwana eyeka ukusela ukuncelisa ngumama ngokupheleleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo. Kwimeko nganye ukulunyulwa kwenzeka ngexesha elahlukileyo. Kwabanye iza nentshayelelo yokutya, kwabanye emva konyaka nakwiintsapho ezininzi kamva, ekubeni amabhinqa amaninzi eqhubeka encancisa kangangeminyaka.
Enoba kuyintoni na, ukuze ukulunyulwa kube yintlonelo, kufuneka kwenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe. Isifuba asikwazi ukususwa ngobusuku, kuba umntwana ufuna ukulungiswa. Okuphikisanayo Kunokuvela iingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokuphetshwa namanye amacebiso afana nala sikushiya ngezantsi.
Unganikeli isifuba sakho, kodwa ungalikhanyeli
Inyathelo lokuqala lokulunyulwa kukuphelisa ngokuthe ngcembe intswelo yosana yokuncanca. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba nakweyiphi na imeko unikela ibele lakho, nokuba lixesha lokutya, ukumbeka ebuthongweni okanye xa ekhala ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu. Ukuze ulunyulwe ngentlonipho kufuneka uqale ngalo khangela ezinye izixhobo zokulawula ezi meko.
Ke ukuba ngunyana wakho okhangela ibele, musa ukukhanyela; Kwangaxeshanye zama ukuzama ezinye izinto, umenze atye izidlo eziliqela ngemini ukuze akufuneki ukuba uncancise ngenxa yendlala, iindlela zokumonwabisa xa elila okanye ukufumana indlela yokumlalisa ngaphandle kwebele. Ukuba uyayifuna, musa ukuyikhanyela, vele uqale uzame ezinye izinto kancinci kancinci.
Nciphisa ukuncancisa
Kancinci kancinci kuya kufuneka uyeke ukuncancisa, de umntwana aqhele. Ngokuqhelekileyo eyona nto inzima kakhulu ebusuku, kuba abantwana basebenzisa ibele njengesixhobo sokuqinisekisa. Kukhethwa ukuba uphelise ezinye zezidlo zemihla ngemihla, onokuthi uzitshintshe ngeziqhamo okanye ubisi olungumgubo. Ungade umnike ubisi lwebele kodwa ngebhotile okanye kwiglasi yokulungisa.
Ukulumla ebusuku ngembeko
Mhlawumbi eyona nxalenye intsonkothileyo yokulunyula, eyona ixabisa kakhulu emntwaneni ekubeni inxulunyaniswa nokulala kwakhe. Xa evuka ukhangela isifuba, ngoko uyazola aze aphinde alale. Kodwa kumama yeyona nto idinisayo kwaye ukuba iqhubeka ixesha elide, inokubangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu. Ukuqala, kufuneka umqhele ukulala ngenye indlela ngaphandle kwesifuba.
Kuqala nge ixesha lokulala eliquka ukuba wedwa nomntwana wakho, ukuze azive esontiwe, ethotywe kwaye ekhuselwe nomama. Ukucula iingoma ezithuleyo ukuze ulale, ukubalisa amabali okanye ukuphulula usana ngobunono ziindlela ezisebenza kakuhle, nangona zithatha ixesha ukuba umntwana aziqhelanise nemeko. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyenza kancinane kwaye uhlale uhlonipha ixesha lomntwana.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokulunyulwa okuhloniphekileyo kukuqwalasela iimvakalelo zomntwana, kodwa ngaphandle kokushiya ecaleni ezo zikamama. Ngothando oluninzi, ukuqonda kunye nomonde, ukulunyulwa kokugqibela kuya kwenzeka kwaye inqanaba elikhethekileyo liya kuphela.