Ukuba unomntwana onenkxalabo yesikolo, imithambo-luvo inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi xa kuqala isikolo. Kungumbono omhle ukuthambisa izinto kwaye umthuthuzele, kodwa kufuneka ukhethe amagama afanelekileyo. Ke ngoko, ungaphoswa ngala mabinzana ama-5 onokuwathetha kuye yonke imihla.
Ndixelele amaxhala akho, ndimamele
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho uxinezelekile okanye ukhathazekile, mcele ukuba akuxelele. Abantwana bayathuthuzeleka xa besazi ukuba banabantu abadala abanokubathemba. Zama ukumamela ngokwenene. Musa ukuziva unyanzelekile ukuba ulahle izisombululo okanye uqikelelo. Ukuphulaphula nje kubonisa abantwana ukuba sibakhathalele.
Ubonakala ngathi unovalo malunga...
Ngokwemvelo abazali bafuna ukucombulula iingxaki zabantwana babo. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwazo lushiya iinkcukacha ezincinci ezenza umahluko omkhulu kubantwana: ukuqinisekiswa. Emva kokuba uphulaphule umntwana wakho xa ethetha, phinda loo mazwi ubuyele kuye. Cacisa oko ukuqondileyo kwaye uqinisekise amagama.
Ndinganceda njani?
Endaweni yokutsiba kuluhlu lwezimvo ezinomdla, buza umntwana wakho oko akufunayo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba into encinane njengokumkhapha ngosuku lokuqala okanye ukulungiselela amashwamshwam akhethekileyo yenza umahluko.
Masenze uludwe lwazo zonke izinto ofuna zenzeke
Ukubhala phantsi zonke izinto ezilungileyo zakha ukulindela izinto ezilungileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana wakho uyavuya, nokuba ufunda isayensi okanye isidlo sasemini esishushu sangoLwesibini. Ukunikela ingqalelo kwizinto eziya kukwenza wonwabe kuya kuthomalalisa amaxhala akho.
Unyaka ngamnye wesikolo lithuba lesiqalo esitsha!
Ukungaphumeleli kunyaka wesikolo odlulileyo, nokuba kukufunda okanye kwezentlalo, Basenokuphazamisa izinto ezilindelwe ngumntwana wakho kwixesha elizayo. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana bakhuthazwa kakhulu ngumbono wesileyiti esingenanto. Mncede ukuba amkele ingcamango yokuqalisa phantsi.
YINTONI ONGAKUYIthethi kumntwana oxhalabileyo
Ngelixa kukho iindlela ezininzi zokulungiselela umntwana wakho okhathazekileyo kunyaka omtsha, Kukho amabinzana oza kufuna ukuwaphepha. Ulwimi olutyhafisayo lungawenza mandundu amaxhala abantwana bethu kwaye lubephule ukuzithemba kwabo. Ungaze unciphise uloyiko okanye ixhala lomntwana. Ungaxeleli:
- akukho nto yokoyika
- Uzakulunga
- Asiyonto inkulu
Qaphela ukuba akukho nalinye kula mabinzana ahlekisa ngokucacileyo umntwana wakho, kwaye ngokubanzi ayinyaniso. Noko ke, zijongela phantsi iinkxalabo zomntwana. Iinkxalabo zabantwana ziyinyani kubo kwaye ukuziqinisekisa yeyona nto iluncedo abazali abanokuyenza. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka esoyika kakhulu... oku kuqhelekile. Qhubeka unikezela ngenkxaso yakho rhoqo.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba loo mithambo-luvo ihambela phambili kwaye ayibavumeli ukuba baphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ufumanise kanye oko kwenzekayo ukuze wenze umntwana wakho azive ngolo hlobo. Mhlawumbi ujongene neemeko ezingqubanayo esikolweni ezifuna uncedo lwakho.