Abantwana abancinci banokungayiqondi ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yentlupheko, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba baqonde ukuba kukho abantu abangenayo imali eyoneleyo yokuthenga ukutya okanye abanekhaya lokuhlala. Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba nokuba intlupheko ikhona, xa abantu behlangana banokwenza izinto ukunceda abo bafuna uncedo. Umzekelo, iinkqubo zokuqhuba ukutya kweKrisimesi ngumzekelo woku.
Bandakanya umntwana wakho ekuncedeni abona bahlelelekileyo
Umntwana wakho unokuyiqonda ngcono intlupheko xa ekubona ubeka umzekelo ekuncedeni abanye. Umzekelo, ukunikela ngemali kwisisa akunakumfundisa umntwana wakho okuninzi ngokunceda abanye, kodwa ukubandakanya yena kuqala ekuncedeni abantu abadinga uncedo kunokumnceda ukuba aqonde ngcono ukuba angamelana njani nentlupheko.
Yenza umntwana wakho abandakanyeke ekunikeleni iithoyi okanye iimpahla ezingasetyenziswanga ukuze abanye abantwana bazisebenzise. Mcele ukuba akhethe izinto ekufuneka anikele ngazo kwaye athethe malunga nendlela anokubanceda ngayo abanye abantwana abanabazali abangenakho ukuthenga izinto zokudlala okanye iimpahla. Thatha umntwana wakho uye naye evenkileni ayokuthenga ukutya kwindawo yokutya. Mcele ukuba akhethe izinto ezinqiniweyo okanye ezomileyo ezinokunikelwa kwiintsapho ezingenakho ukuthenga ukutya.
Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuthatha amayeza ukwenza umahluko, unokuphefumlelwa ukuba enze izinto ezininzi zobubele kwixesha elizayo.
Gcina umntwana wakho ekuziva enexhala
Ukuthetha ngentlupheko kunokwenza umntwana wakho azive enexhala. Unganexhala lokuba uza kuphelelwa kukutya okanye ngenye imini ungabi namakhaya, njengabanye abantu. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe ngawo nawaphi na amanyathelo okhuseleko onokuba nawo.
Ukuba unomhlobo okanye isihlobo esinokukunceda xa unelishwa, yithi into enje, "Singahlala sihlala noMakhulu ukuba besingenakhaya lethu." Okanye uchaze ukuba kukho iinkqubo zikarhulumente ezikhoyo zokunceda abantu ngaphandle kwezixhobo. Oku kunceda abantu abangenakho ukuthenga ukutya.
Ewe, njengomntu okhulileyo, uyazi ukuba nezona ziqinisekiso zibalaseleyo azisiyonyani. Akunakuze ujongane nethamsanqa elinokushiya usapho lwakho luswele kakhulu, kodwa sonke sijamelene nokwenzeka oko… akukho mntu ukhululekileyo kuko.
Eyona nto unokuyenzela abantwana bakho kukuqinisekisa ukuba uya kuhlala ubathanda kwaye ubakhusela kwaye nokuba iimeko zithatha phi, uyakuhlala usenza njalo kwaye into ebalulekileyo kukuhlala kunye kunye. Ukwabelana ngento engaphaya koko, ngakumbi abantwana abancinci, kunokuba nzima kakhulu kubo ... Ngale ndlela, uxanduva lwakho kukubenza baqonde ukuba kukho abantu abaphila ngaphandle kwemali nabalwela ukutya nokulala kwindawo eshushu yonke imihla, kodwa ukuba bangoyiki kuba liqela ukuba xa nikunye iya kujonga izixhobo ukuze ikwazi ukuhlawula into oyifunayo.