Kukho ootatomkhulu abahlala kude kubazukulwana babo ngenxa yeemeko ezininzi. Aba otatomkhulu bayabakhumbula abantwana babo nabazukulwana kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu, banokuthatha isigqibo sokuya kuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa okanye ixesha elithile nabantwana babo ekhaya. Ukuba ungutatomkhulu kwaye ufuna ukwenza oku, qala ubize umntwana wakho ukuze abone ukuba kuhamba kakuhle na kwaye ningavumelana ngomhla olungele wonke umntu. Nje ukuba ukwazi oku kwaye uvumelane nohambo, ungalonwabela usapho lwakho kwimeko esondeleleneyo njengekhaya lakho.
Kubalulekile ukuba njengondwendwe ubenesimo esihle sengqondo kwaye uyihlonele imithetho kunye nemfihlo. Ikhaya ngalinye lihlabathi, kodwa nokuba ngabantwana bakho nabazukulwana bakho, benze ilizwe lokuphambukela kwikhaya lakho kwaye kufuneka ulihloniphe.
Uncedo ekhaya
Ukuba unesakhono esaneleyo sokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba uncede kangangoko unako. Njengokuba ulapho, uya ungcola kwaye ke, unembopheleleko efanayo neyabo yokucoca izinto. Pheka, coca, yenza iibhedi ... Kodwa musa ukwenza ucoceko olunzulu kuba kunokuthathwa njengokugxeka imikhwa yokucoca yabamkeli bakho. Kwangokunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na, buza ukuba ingaba licebo elilungileyo na ukuba uyenze. Awukho ekhaya, nokuba uziva ukuba awukho.
Ixesha labucala lomntu wonke
Ngamaxesha athile buyela egumbini lakho okanye kwenye indawo ekhaya (enje ngegadi okanye iveranda) ukunika usapho ubumfihlo kwaye ke nawe, ube nendawo yakho. Ke unokuziva uphumle ukuba uchitha ixesha elincinci wedwa, ngaphandle kwengxolo. Yiba nencwadi ezandleni zakho ukuze ufunde, wenze i-yoga okanye nantoni na oyifunayo. Ukuba uziva ngathi izinto zixinene kancinci, ke hamba okanye uhambe kancinci. Xa ubuyela kwisangqa sosapho, izinto ziya kukhululeka ngakumbi.
Yiba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwaye ugweme ukungqubana
Umntu onesimo esihle sengqondo uyakonwabela ukuba kunye naye. Izikhalazo azisoloko zilungile. Ukongeza ekubeni nethemba, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu akufuneki bagxeke indlela abazali abazenza ngayo izinto, nokuba ukugxekwa kufihliwe njengengcebiso yobuhlobo. Iingcebiso abadla ngokuzinika ootatomkhulu ziyaphindaphindeka xa ukwindlu yabantwana bakho. Ukuba ezopolitiko yingxaki, sukuthetha nje ngazo. Endaweni yoko, Bona ukuba ababuki zindwendwe bakho bathanda ukuthetha ngantoni kwaye uhlala usisa incoko kwelo cala.
Buyekeza ababuki zindwendwe bakho
Ukuba neendwendwe endlwini, nkqu nezona zinentsebenziswano, luxinzelelo. Buyekeza abo ubamkeleyo, nkqu nabantwana bakho, ngomqondiso woxabiso lwakho. Ungathumela isipho endlwini yakhe emva kotyelelo, yenze ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, njl. Ungaze uthumele izipho kubazukulwana bakho ngaphandle kokwenza ezinye kubazali.
Unokwenza into ekhethekileyo ngexesha lotyelelo lwakho, njengokuhlawula isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ukuhlawula ityala lokutya. Oku kuyakwenza ukuhlala kwakho kulunge ngakumbi kwaye kuya kukumema kwakhona.