Iingxaki ezahlukeneyo zokuncancisa

iingxaki zokuncancisa

Ukuncancisa sisipho sobomi, ukutya okulungileyo kakhulu umntwana osanda kuzalwa angakufumana kunye nendlela emangalisayo yokudala uxhulumaniso olukhethekileyo kunye nomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi akuyondlela ilula. Ngokuchasene noko, ngokuqhelekileyo kugcwele iingxaki kunye namaxesha avavanya umama osoloko engazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.

Kukho ezahlukeneyo amanqanaba okuncancisa abangela ukuba kukhule i-spikes okanye i-spurts, utshintsho olwenzeka ngenxa yeemfuno ezahlukeneyo zomntwana. Siyabulela kwizifundo ezininzi ezikhoyo kulo mba, siyazi ukuba zeziphi ezi zigaba okanye iingxaki zokuncelisa. Okungathandabuzekiyo kunceda ukujamelana nemeko engelula kumama, naye uhlala inkqubo yokuzincama kakhulu, nangona egcwele ixesha elimangalisayo.

iingxaki zokuncancisa

Zonke iintsana ezisandula ukuzalwa aziqhoboshi kwibele ngokukhawuleza kwaye zisanyisa ayimiselwa ngempumelelo kuzo zonke iimeko. Ngokungafaniyo, koomama abaninzi ngomnye wemicelimngeni emikhulu emva kokubeleka kwaye nangona ngokomgaqo, bonke abafazi bayakwazi ukuncancisa iintsana zabo, akusoloko kusenzeka njengoko kulindelekile.

Ukukhulelwa, emva kokubeleka kunye nokuba ngumama kulungiselelwe ngandlela zonke. Into ebangela ukudideka okukhulu kunye nokubandezeleka kwabasetyhini, ngakumbi kwabaqalayo. Oku kuyenzeka nangokuncancisa, kuba iingcali zithi bonke abafazi bazilungiselele ngokwasemzimbeni ukondla abantwana babo, ngaphandle kweemeko ezithile kunye nezizathu zomzimba.

Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uthetha ngokulungiswa kwengqondo, leyo oomama abangayilungiselelanga. Kuninzi okuthethwa ngokubaluleka kobisi lwebele, ngeendlela ezininzi zokuzikhusela neengenelo olunazo kusana nakunina. Kodwa kuncinci okuthethwa ngaloo maxesha xa kubonakala ngathi yonke into ibuyela umva kwaye umama engazi ukuba enze ntoni. Ezi zibizwa ngokuba ziingxaki zokuncancisa kwaye ukuzazi kuya kukunceda ukuba woyise kwaye uqhubeke nokuncancisa ngempumelelo.

Ingxaki yokuqala kwiintsuku ze-17-20

Kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi, umntwana uhlala ehlala rhoqo, edla kwaye elala kakhulu. Kodwa kwiveki yesithathu yobomi kufuneka ukwandise ukuthathwa kobisi, ukukhula kwayo kufuna yona kwaye ihlumelo lokuqala lifika. Umntwana ufuna ukuncelisa rhoqo, ubuyisela ubisi oluninzi kwaye nangona kunjalo ufuna ukuqhubeka nokuncelisa kwaye akayeki ukukhala xa engekho ebeleni.

Enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo, malunga nenyanga kunye nesiqingatha sobomi

Njengoko imfuno yobisi isanda, umntwana ufuna okungakumbi. Ngokwemvelo, usana luyazi ukuba ukuze lufumane umlinganiselo ofunekayo lufanele luncancise ngakumbi nangakumbi yaye ngenxa yoku lusebenzisa isimilo esingaqhelekanga. Uba novalo kakhulu, ukhalela esifubeni sakhe, jiba umqolo wakho ngengono yakho emlonyeni wakho, qinisa imilenze yakho kwaye ufunxe kwiijerks.

Ingxaki yokuncancisa kwiinyanga ezi-3

Yenye yezona zinto zibuthathaka kwaye zide, ezinokubangela ukuphazamiseka kokuncancisa ngaphambi kwexesha. Into eyenzekayo kukuba umntwana sele eyincutshe ekuncanciseni. kuthatha nje imizuzu embalwa ukukhupha isifuba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-stimuli yabo ingena kwi-evolution ebalulekileyo kwaye banokuphazanyiswa nantoni na. Ukuncancisa kuba ngumbhodamo, ngeeyure ezingaqhelekanga, usana alufuni ngenkani ibele kwaye lubonakala luncanca ngokuzolileyo kuphela xa lulele.

Ngomnyaka wobomi

Ukufikelela unyaka ngokuncelisa ibele kuyimpumelelo efanelwe ukunconywa, kuba ngeengxaki, ukubuyela emsebenzini kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla akulula ukuyigcina ixesha elide. Ukuba uyifezekisile, siyavuyisana nawe kwaye mhlawumbi kufuneka ulungiselele ingxaki entsha. Ngeli xesha kwayeUmntwana sele esitya zonke iintlobo zokutyas kunye nobisi luba lungathandekiyo, nangona luhlala lusesona sidlo sisisiseko sokutya komntwana. Ngomnyaka wobomi kukho ukuncipha kwesantya sokukhula komntwana, okwenza kube lula kwaye ngoko akudingi ukutya okuninzi ukugubungela iimfuno zayo.

Ukoyisa iingxaki zokuncancisa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela iingcebiso ezithile. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo musa ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba ancancise nanini na kwaye uhloniphe iimfuno zabo. Gwema i-stimuli enokuphazamisa ukuncelisa, umondle kwigumbi, ebumnyameni kwaye ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Khumbula ukuba, nangona kubingelelwe, ukuncancisa kufunwa kwaye oko kuthetha umonde, umonde omkhulu. Kodwa iyakuxabisa eli nqanaba lingaphindi libuye, liyonwabele kwaye uphile ngokuqonda ngokupheleleyo loo maxesha obudlelwane obusondeleyo nosana lwakho.


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