Ukutyeba kakhulu emntwaneni yingxaki esiya ekuhlaleni, kuba ubukhulu becala luluntu olunetyala kwinto yokuba abantwana bangaphezulu kobunzima ekufuneka bebubo. Abantwana abanakubekwa tyala ngokutya ukutya okuneswekile eninzi okanye okusenziweyo, kuba batya kuphela oko kuthiwe luluntu kulungile kubo okanye oko abazali bacinga ukuba lolukhetho olufanelekileyo, nangona kungenjalo.
Ukongeza, iimfuno zoluntu zenza ukuba abazali babe noxinzelelo ngakumbi kunye nexesha elincinci, ke bayabavumela abantwana ukuba bachithe ixesha elininzi ngaphakathi ezindlwini, ngaphandle kokuzilolonga okanye ukudlala ixesha elininzi kunye nethebhulethi okanye iifowuni eziphathwayo. Oku kuyakwenza, Ngokutya okungenampilo kodwa okwamkelweyo ekuhlaleni kunye nokunciphisa ukusebenza komzimba, abantwana bafumana ubunzima obuyingozi.
Iingcebiso zokuphepha ukutyeba kakhulu ebuntwaneni
Kubalulekile ukuba ukuthintela ukukhuluphala kwabantwana, abantwana banokwenza iyure enye yezemidlalo ngosuku, oko kukuthi, ukuba bachitha iyure enye ngosuku bezilolonga. Oku akuthethi ukuba ubhalisela umthambo ... Kodwa kuyakufuneka ukuba benze imisebenzi yomzimba abayithandayo, nokuba yeyiphi na imisebenzi yangaphandle, ukuhamba ngebhayisekile kunye nosapho, ukudlala imidlalo yomzimba nabahlobo babo, njl.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba wena, njengotata okanye umama, ube ngumzekelo wobomi obusempilweni. Kuya kufuneka uzilolonge ngaphakathi ngexesha elikuvumelayo, kuya kufuneka utye ukutya okusempilweni (Khumbula ukuba abantwana bakho bafunda kwinto abayibonayo kuwe, kwaye ukuba awukwenzi ukubaluleka kwindlela otya ngayo, abayi kuthi). Ke ngoko, ukusukela ngoku, ukubeka phambili indlela yokuphila esempilweni kusapho lwakho kufanelekile.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ukutya okusetyenzisiweyo okanye okongeze iswekile kuthintelwe. Amakhekhe emizi-mveliso, iziselo ezibandayo, iilekese ... kufuneka zisetyenziswe kuphela kwisiseko esithile. Ukutya kwemihla ngemihla kufuneka kwenziwe iziqhamo, imifuno, inyama engenamafutha, inkukhu, iturkey, amandongomane angenagwele okanye ngetyuwa eyongeziweyo, amanzi, iijusi zendalo (esele zithengiwe kwizikhongozeli) ...
Xa usenza ukuthengwa kuya kufuneka ujonge iilebhile kwaye uqaphele iswekile okanye iikhabhohayidrethi ezinokutya ngakunye, kuba kukho ukutya okuninzi okungeyonyani okukuthengisa ngokungathi kusempilweni, kwaye akunjalo. Kukuthengisa nje ke ngoko uchitha imali yakho. Kodwa ukusukela xa kufuneka uthenge ukutya kuya kufuneka uchithe imali yakho, kungcono ukhethe ukutya okunempilo kuwe nakusapho luphela.
Ukungayithathi ngqalelo yonke le nto kunokubangela abantwana bakho, ukongeza ekutyebeni kakhulu okanye ukutyeba kakhulu, ukuba babe neengxaki zempilo kwixa elizayo. Njengayo yonke into enxulumene nokutyeba kakhulu, uhlobo 2 lweswekile, uxinzelelo lwegazi, amathuba aphezulu okuba nomhlaza okanye ukubethwa sistroke. Abantu yile nto siyityayo kunye nento esiyenzayo, ke ngoku ukusukela ngoku, kungcono ukuba wazi into oyityayo kusapho.