Ukuba umntu ukuxelele ukuba ukuba ngumama kulula, kuyacaca ukuba ukuxokisile, kodwa ukuba umntu ukuxelele ukuba ukuba ngumama yeyona nto intle emhlabeni, le yinyaniso eyinyani. Ngokwenyani, xa ufuna ikhefu lokuba ngumama, cinga ngento ekufuneka ucace gca kuyo yonke imihla yobomi bakho njengomama: wenza konke okusemandleni akho Ngokuzama nje, sele wenze kakuhle.
Sonke singavuma ukuba ukuba ngumama ngowona msebenzi unzima kwaye uxanduva emhlabeni, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, ikwangowona msebenzi unomvuzo kunye nomlingo emhlabeni. Ukukhulisa abantwana akukho lula, kodwa KUYA kuhlala kufanelekile.
Iintsuku ezilungileyo kunye neentsuku ezimbi
Kukho iintsuku ezilungileyo, ezilungileyo ngokwenene. Kodwa kukwakho neentsuku ezimbi ... ezinokoyikisa. Ungahlala njani usempilweni ngokwasemphefumlweni phakathi kotshintsho lwe-diaper, ukungalali ebusuku, ukukhula okukhulayo, umsindo, njl. Kwaye kuyo yonke le nto, ukongeza ekubeni ngumama, ukwangumsebenzi, umhlobo, intombi, umakazi, umtshana kunye noluhlu olude.
Ukuba ngumama kunzima kodwa ngezi ngcebiso, yonke into iya kuba ngcono kuwe ukusukela ngoku:
- Camngca Cinga kangangoko unakho. Nokuba yimizuzu emi-5 ngosuku. Ukucamngca akuthethi ukuba kwindawo yokucamngca ngeyure eli-1. Ngamanye amaxesha ukupeyinta imandala kangangemizuzu emi-5 kunye nokucoca ingqondo yakho kwanele.
- Ixesha elibalulekile. Chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantwana bakho. Beka ifowuni yakho ecaleni kwaye ubekhona ngalo mzuzu.
- Phuma nosapho lwakho. Thatha usapho ukuphuma, nokuba kungaselwandle okanye kwindawo yokudlala.
- Ixesha lomgangatho kunye nootatomkhulu. Vumela abantwana bakho ukuba bachithe ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nootatomkhulu noomakhulu babo. Oku kuyakunceda ukuba ube nexesha lakho kunye nabo ukomeleza ulwalamano lwabo. Abantwana bafunda kootatomkhulu noomakhulu babo izinto abaza kuzixabisa ezintliziyweni zabo iminyaka emininzi.
- Yiba nexesha lokuba nekofu nomhlobo kwaye nithethe ngezinto zakho.
- Hleka Hleka kakhulu kwaye kangangoko kunokwenzeka… ngakumbi kuwe! Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukugcina ubuso obuchanekileyo yonke imihla.
- Fumana into oyithandayo ... kwaye uyenze!
- Ukuba unezilwanyana zasekhaya, zikonwabele.
- Yenza umthambo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uye ejimini, ungahamba ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ... ufumanise ukuba loluphi uhlobo lomthambo oluthandayo!
- Thetha nabantu osebenza nabo, ubazi.
- Thetha neqabane lakho Usengumhlobo wakho osenyongweni! Thatha ixesha lokuphinda uqhagamshele kunye neqabane lakho, nokuba ikomityi yekofu ngaphambi kokuba abantwana bavuke, okanye ubusuku bomhla (kwanasekhaya)
- Yonwabela iholide. Ungaya kwenye indawo entsha kwaye uyenze ibe ngamava amnandi osapho.
- Yonwabela ikhefu. Phefumla Wenza izinto ngcono kunokuba ucinga.
Khumbula ukuba ukuba ngumzali akukho lula, kodwa kuya kuhlala kufanelekile. Abantwana bakho bayinto yonke kwaye uyinto yonke ebantwaneni bakho… Kwaye bafuna wena ukuba uphile.