Ngamanye amaxesha oomama banokuziva betyhafile kakhulu kuyo yonke imisebenzi ekufuneka beyenzile suku ngalunye. Ngelishwa, uninzi lwazo alubekwa phezulu kuluhlu lwezinto ezizakwenziwa, into eya kubenza bazive belusizi kwaye bediniwe kakhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umama ongonwabanga akanako ukukhulisa abantwana bakhe bonwabile, kuba akazukukwazi ukuhambisa iimvakalelo ezilungileyo.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba bonke oomama bazenzele ixesha ebomini babo, bonwabele ixesha labo. Nangona kubonakala ngathi ibhanile, enyanisweni kunzima ngakumbi kunokuba ibonakala kwaye iyimfuneko ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga. Oomama kufuneka badlale imidlalo, babe nexesha lezinto abanomdla kuzo, bahambe bodwa bengakhange beve belila ngalo lonke ixesha, bathethe nabanye abantu abadala, okanye bonwabele ixesha kunye. Kubonakala ngathi zizinto eziqhelekileyo kwabanye, kodwa kumama osisigxina, kubonakala ngathi kunzima ukufikelela kubunewunewu.
Ngapha koko, ukongeza ekufundeni ukungavumi kwezo zinto ungenakuzenza, ukuzingqunga nabantu abakunikayo endaweni yokukuthabatha, uphumle kwaye ugcine ukutya okusempilweni ... kuyakufuneka ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha , uthatha ikhefu ebantwaneni bakho. Oku akuthethi ukuba ubathanda kancinci, iya kuba ilahlekile ngakumbi! Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ubatyeshele oku ... Kuthetha nje ukuba kumaxesha ngamaxesha ukuba nexesha KUPHELA kuwe, kuya kukunceda kwaye kamva, kuya kulungela nabantwana bakho.
Ikhefu labantwana
Ewe ungayenza, ungafumana ikhefu ebantwaneni bakho. Unokujonga imisebenzi ehambelana nemisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla kwaye ube nomgcini womntwana okanye ilungu losapho lihlale nabantwana nokuba ziiyure ezimbalwa ngeveki. Ngenxa yokuba baya kuba ngumzuzu wakho.
Khumbula ukuba ezi zikhefu AKUFANELE zisetyenziselwe ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya okanye ukuya kwinkampani… eli khefu kufuneka lisetyenziselwe wena, ukonwabela nabahlobo bakho, ukuphuma neqabane lakho okanye ukwenza nawuphi na umsebenzi eniwufumanayo unika umdla okanye ubumnandi.
Khangela iimpawu zoxinzelelo
Iimfuno eziqhubekayo zokuba ngumzali ngokulula zingakhokelela kuxinzelelo. Uxinzelelo lunokukhokelela ngokukhawuleza kukudinwa nakowuphi na umama. Ukuba awuthathi ikhefu, ulale, kwaye ucele uncedo kwabanye, ukubala nje ezimbalwa, uxinzelelo lwakho luyaqhubeka lonyuka. Awusoze ube nalo ixesha lokuzihlaziya kwaye unokufumanisa ukuba yonke into ivakalelwa ngokungathi kukufumba.
Jonga iimpawu zoxinzelelo kuwe, qaphela ukuba ezi mpawu zikwenza uzive ukhathazeke kakhulu yonke imihla, into enokubonisa ukuba uqala ukudandatheka. Kulula ukusuka ekubeni ngumama oxinezelekileyo ukuya ekubeni ngumama oxinezelekileyo. Musa ukoyika ukufuna uncedo, ukuba yile nto uyifunayo yile nto kufuneka uyenze.
Njengokuba ubathanda abantwana bakho, ukuba ngumzali kunokukwenzakalisa ukuba awuzikhathaleli okanye awuyiphathi kakuhle. Ukuba ubona kufanelekile, thetha nogqirha wakho ngeyona ndlela inyanisekileyo ukuze uphinde ube ngumama owonwabileyo kwaye osempilweni, wena, usapho lwakho, iqabane lakho kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ulungiselele abantwana bakho.