Ukufudusa umntwana ukusuka embelekweni ukuya ebhedini kunokuba buhlungu, kubazali nakumntwana ngokwakhe. Ngaba sele iinyanga ezimbalwa okanye iminyaka, ukusuka ekulaleni kwigumbi elinye, kunye nabantu ababaluleke kakhulu kunye nabayimfuneko kumntwana, ulale ngokuzimeleyo, akukho lula. Kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, abazali ngokwabo okanye ngokukodwa umama, banokubandezeleka kakhulu kolo kwahlukana.
Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntwana kufuneka alale yedwa ngexesha elithile ebomini bakhe. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ngumntwana okanye sele ngumntwana osemdala noko, wonke umntu ngaxa lithile kufuneka adlule kolo tshintsho. Hayi nje ngokuba elinye inyathelo elingaphaya lokuya ekuvuthweni, kukuba yonke intsapho iya kulala kakuhle kakhulu. Ngoku, kuninzi kunzima ukugqiba ixesha lokususa umntwana kwibhedi ukuya ebhedini. Nanga amanye amacebiso okukunceda ngesi sigqibo.
Utshintsho ukusuka kwibele ukuya ebhedini
Ukwenza utshintsho lube lula, ngaphambi kokuba uhambise umntwana kwi-crib ukuya embhedeni, qalisa ngokutshintsha igumbi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ibhedi yomntwana idla ngokuhlala kwigumbi elinye nabazali. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ide ibekwe kunye nebhedi ephindwe kabini ukwenza ukulala kunye nomntwana. Oko kukuthi, nokuba umntwana ulele ekhukweni lakhe. Mhlawumbi ixesha lam elininzi ndilichitha ndibambelele kumama.
Yaye nokuba akunjalo, ukuhlala kwigumbi elinye nabazali kubanda kuba umntwana uziva enqabiseke ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba wenze utshintsho olubaluleke kangaka, kufuneka uqale ngokuthatha amanyathelo amancinci. Lungisa igumbi lomntwana kwaye ulungelelanise iminyaka kunye neemfuno zabo ngexesha lokutshintsha. Ngaphambi kokususa ibhedi, kananjalo ubeke ibhedi egumbini ukuze umntwana aqhelane naye.
Unokusebenzisa ibhedi ukudlala, ukufunda amabali ngexesha lokulala kwibhedi okanye ukulala. Ngale ndlela unokufumanisa ubumnandi bokuba nebhedi yakho. Sebenzisa abalinganiswa ababathandayo kunye nemibala ukunxiba ibhedi kwaye iya kuba yinto enomtsalane ngakumbi kumncinci. Xa kufikwa kwiminyaka yobudala, akukho xesha lifanelekileyo kubo bonke abantwana kuba ngamnye unezakhe izingqi kwaye kubalulekile ukuzihlonipha.
Uluqala njani utshintsho, bandakanya umntwana
Ngokuqhelekileyo kuqikelelwa ukuba malunga neminyaka enesiqingatha okanye emibini ubudala umntwana ulungele ngokweemvakalelo olo tshintsho lubaluleke kangaka. Yi le kuba ngelo xesha umdlalo wokomfuziselo uyaqala, apho umntwana ephinda ukuziphatha kwabantu abadala. Dlala ukutyisa oonodoli, ubanxibise kwaye ubalalise ebhedini yabo yokudlala. Olu luphawu oluhle olubonisa ukuba umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba ukulala ebhedini yakhe enye nje inkqubo yokukhula.
Lungiselela umncinci ngaphambi kokuba wenze utshintsho lokugqibela, mchazele ukuba xa ekulungele kwaye eziva ngathi, uya kuqala ukulala kuloo bhedi enhle oyilungiselele yona. ungasebenzisa abanye amaqhinga ukuze omncinci aqaphele yintoni eza kwenzeka kwaye yintoni eqhelekileyo. Beka izilwanyana zabo ezifakwe ebhedini kwaye udlale nomntwana wakho ukuba abeke oonodoli ebhedini, abalalise, baxelele ibali, nantoni na oyisebenzisayo kwindlela yakho yokulala yesiqhelo kunye nomntwana wakho.
Njengazo zonke iinguqu ezenzeka kubomi beentsana, ukuhamba ukusuka kwimbeleko ukuya kulala kuyinqanaba elibalulekileyo nelinzima elifuna umonde nokuqonda okukhulu. Xa ixesha lifika, hlala ecaleni komntwana wakho ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ukuba uyakhala, yiya kwicala lakhe kwaye uthuthuzele umntwana wakho omncinci. Unokuhlala egumbini de alale, kodwa kuphephe ukungena ebhedini naye. Ngomonde kunye nokuqonda okukhulu, kancinci kancinci umntwana uya kuqhela ukulala yedwa ebhedini yakhe kwaye uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye evuya.