Sunday, May 6, 2018, is Mother's Day. A day where the love felt for each and every one of the mothers in this world is celebrated. A love, which of course, does not only take shape one day a year, if not that love for a mother must be shown the 365 days that the calendar has.
The heart of a mother is owned by her children, the mother as soon as she becomes pregnant her heart ceases to belong to her. A mother has a divided heart in her children. But there are women who got pregnant but never had their babies in their arms, they never had those first smiles, or those first birthdays, or the first tantrums. These mothers long for all these moments dreamed of but not enjoyed, they long to hear 'mom' from little lips.
Mothers who suffer loss
A mother who has lost a baby is also a mother. They also need to feel that they are in a happy life. But life can be unpleasant, although they deserve that Mother's Day is also by and for them, because they felt what it is like to unconditionally love a being that grew in their womb, and they know what it is to suffer in an incredibly painful way when that little being, took flight to the sky.
On Mother's Day, love your child who is in heaven, and you can show it to him in all these ways:
- Say your child's name. If you have lost a child, say your child's name. This is the most important thing you can do for them today: say your child's name. Your children in heaven will be remembered by you. You may feel a bit uncomfortable, but you will never forget him and that is why Mother's Day is also for you.
- If you lost your only child, Mother's Day is for you too. You will always be a mother even if you have lost your only child. You always will be even if your child is not in your arms. Remember this forever. You deserve that recognition, because your pain is real and it won't go away for long.
- Even if you have other children, your pain is still real. No matter how many children you have, you will never forget the pain of losing a child, even if they did not have the opportunity to be born.
- Your heart is just as important. Anyone who wants to be a father or mother and cannot be ... you have to recognize their heart. There are women who live their day to day with the dream of having children who were never born, but who love them with all their hearts.
Because if you have lost your child or several of them, you also know what the feeling of being a mother is. You know what it is to love another being more than yourself, because you have suffered the unbearable and you also deserve recognition this day.