They seemed to like you, but they suddenly backed off and now they seem to have no interest in maintaining a relationship with you. Let's take a look at some of the reasons why the person who seemed to have taken an interest in you has just… disappeared from your life. You may be wondering what you did wrong and want to hope to discover the reason why he has left your life.
It is very likely that you will never know the truth about why you disappeared from your life. After all, it may have nothing to do with you. Maybe he disappears and reappears at seemingly random times, which probably means that he has been busy with someone else ... But if it is completely gone, it may be for one of these reasons:
Is with someone else
Whether you were dating an ex-girlfriend again or meeting someone with whom you have a stronger connection by chance, you have chosen someone else. It is a simple fact of life that attractions vary. If you've met someone you feel closer to or maybe even more attracted to, they may not come back. If things don't last long with the new girl, she might start texting you again and inviting you to hang out.
Did you say, did or did not do something
If you did something that came to him the wrong way the last time you saw him, you may not have even realized it. Think about how he reacted to all the things you did together during the day or night.
If he's not one of the people who calls you, maybe you haven't even said anything about it. Some guys don't like to even mention if a girl does something that bothers them. Those kinds of people just stop dating without any explanation. Has he ever told you that you did something he doesn't like? If he has, it is much less likely that you did something that upset him.
If he usually speaks up right away, you can safely assume that it is something entirely different or a combination of too many things for him to even bother trying to figure it out. If you said something that offended him, you should sincerely apologize. Being surprised that he took it so personally will only increase the division between you. To fix it, you need to apologize in a realistic way. If you feel like you thought you shouldn't apologize for it, the apology won't make sense to him.
Not everyone likes surprises
Did you surprise him with some kind of change the last time you saw him? Maybe some disturbing news that you felt comfortable enough to share with him or something about your past that you never mentioned. If he thinks you kept something from him or were dishonest, that might be enough to drive him away forever.
Is going through a personal struggle
Maybe he has a secret that you don't know. Something traumatic could have happened to you in the past. Or maybe you recently lost a loved one. It can be very difficult to deal with while in a relationship. Some people react by excluding their partner. This type of behavior is common for people experiencing personal difficulties.
If it is a personal problem, the good news is that you will handle it better over time and you will become more and more comfortable with the idea of being with someone, that is, with you.
It could also be that he is busy or has simply lost interest in you. In any case, if he is not with you ... he does not deserve you.