Maybe you thought the date went very well, but you were taken aback when he didn't kiss you at the end of the date. Maybe you did something wrong? There are times when both boys and girls don't kiss on the first date, and there are usually some reasons behind it. We tell you for your peace of mind and so that you know, why he did not take that step that you wanted him to take.
I wasn't sure what you would want
He might have felt like you already closed a subtle move or two earlier in the evening. It could be treading so carefully that you didn't even notice it. He may not even believe that you are fully interested in him yet. On the next date, if he still is, then you should let him know that you like him and give him a little more confidence to make the move.
A compliment would help get the message across, but something physical would be much more effective. An example of how you can express that physically would be when he gives you a hug and you wrap your arms around him, do something to show a little more affection.
You have to be subtle because you don't want to look desperate, but at the same time, It must be obvious for him to get the message that you really like him and want him to stop being so shy. What you feel is subtle but clear enough is obviously up to you, but one suggestion is to hug him tighter than you did on the first date or would normally.
Not sure if he still likes you
Something may have gone wrong on your date that turned it off, something you said or did. Did you talk about politics or religion? If so, that could have done it. Or maybe he's been a bit hesitant about you since you met and he's not sure he wants to go in that direction.. In that case, don't worry.
If he invites you on another date, you will know more or less what your situation is. If he doesn't do it right away, stay in touch with him if you can and maybe he'll eventually come over and give you another chance.
He thinks you want to take it easy
I could be assuming you're not the type of girl who kisses on the first date. It could be that he doesn't want you to think that he's just trying to understand you. If this is so, maybe that's why you don't take the first step. Or maybe he's really a gentleman that way and always has been. If you come from a religious background, you may not even believe in premarital sex.
Another reason you might want to take it easy could be that you just got out of a relationship and are still trying to get rid of feelings for your ex. Approaching someone shortly after a major breakup can be difficult and uncomfortable. Nevertheless, it should come out of it eventually if that's the cause.
Failed to take the step
Maybe you built up pressure in your head and mentalized to the point where you couldn't. If he's a bit rusty or inexperienced with dating, he may have been nervous enough to flinch by leaning in and planting a kiss on you. If there were other people around, it wouldn't have helped if he was so shy. The good news is that it will come alive soon.