If your boyfriend has a major case of wandering eyes, don't despair. That does not mean that he is a heartless infidel, and it does not mean that he has lost interest in you. This is what it means. Consider the points below before dismissing your boyfriend as a girl-crazy pervert.
Women attract your attention with their appearance
Women demand attention. From her high heels to her gorgeous long hair and painted nails, they draw attention from all directions. Most women choose their outfits meticulously. They specifically choose flashy outfits because they want to look good. Men can't help looking at other women.
But let's not be sexist here, a lot of guys do a lot to get attention too. Maybe you are guilty of exactly the same thing as him. Do you look at other men in public? It would be natural for you to do so.
When men look at other women, it is not something they plan. His eyes scan around, almost uncontrollably. As a man, it takes a lot of effort to take your eyes off a beautiful woman and avoid looking at them altogether. We are talking about a willpower. If your boyfriend doesn't usually drool over hotties when they pass by, then you should congratulate him on that. If you shoot a fleeting glance, that's obviously commonplace, no matter who you're looking at.
Do you look at other women too?
Instead of asking why men look at other women, ask yourself another question: Have you ever found yourself looking at other women? I guess the answer is yes. Maybe you look at their clothes, shoes, hairstyle, whatever, but the truth is that they caught your attention.
It may not be in the same way that they attract the attention of boys, But they caught your attention and they got your full attention. Mission accomplished. Now if you were looking at the same girl you noticed your boyfriend was looking at, can you really blame him? What remains at that point is, did you cross the line?
The difference between "a look" and "a look"
If you are simply looking at a cute girl, there is probably no real threat. I mean, he has made no effort to establish contact or some kind of connection with them. But if you gave them "the look," then that's another story. By "the look" we mean that you can say that you are playing "the game." In other words, you hope to establish a mutual sexual attraction. If that's the case, then it's a very bad sign for you.
That is the sign of an infidel. However, don't jump to conclusions based on that. Just because he's still playing the field in some way doesn't necessarily mean he's going to cheat on you.
Feel too early for deep commitment
It could be that he still doesn't take you seriously. Some people are very resistant to commitment when they meet someone they really like. That could be because you feel like you're not ready for a relationship, or maybe you had a bad experience in the past and are now trusting in moderation.
If so, it could definitely get more serious at some point in the future. If you feel like you're not really ready for a long-term relationship right now, that could be an omen. If you've already been together for a while, you should talk to him and let him know how you feel and what your expectations are.