Respect must always be present in a partner and you cannot tolerate under any circumstances speaking badly to the other person and disrespecting them on a regular basis. Many people do not know it but speaking badly or in an aggressive way it is a form of abuse.
If it is not cut in time, bad-mouthing can become a habit and end up damaging in a psychological way the person who suffers it.
Psychological abuse
At first speaking with bad words may seem something specific, but over time things can get worse and turn into abuse with all the letters. Continual disrespect by one of the parties ends up undermining the attacked person's self-esteem. In a couple you must love but also good communication. It is useless to be in love with a person, when they are regularly spoken to in a derogatory and violent way. Being able to speak things with respect and in a civilized way is synonymous with the fact that the relationship is healthy and is going very well.
The big problem with it all is that there are people who see the fact that their partner speaks badly to them as normal. They don't want to see that they are being mistreated day after day by the person in their life.
Clear signs of aggressive and violent communication
There are a number of fairly clear characteristics that indicate that a person is receiving violent communication from their partner:
- There is teasing on a regular basis.
- The other person's reaction is always with insults and with great aggression.
- Most conversations end screaming and fighting.
- Irony is a commonly used tool in order to do harm.
- Empathy is conspicuous by its absence.
- Try to blame constantly and does not admit mistakes at any time.
What to do if your partner speaks badly to you
It should be clear first of all that good communication is key for a couple to function.. It is not normal for bad language and disrespect to become a habit in a relationship. If this occurs, it is important to know the reason for the aggressive communication. Sometimes the person carries such aggressiveness from the past and from some childhood trauma. In this case, it is important to go to a professional who knows how to treat such a problem.
Under no circumstances can bad talk be allowed to become normal and unimportant. The abused person should sit next to his partner and speak calmly and solve such problem. It is important to make it clear that such behaviors can never be repeated again.
Bad words and violent communication in a partner is a true psychological abuse that should not be tolerated under any circumstances. If things don't change after talking about it, the abused person must end such a relationship. A toxic partner is not at all advisable for anyone and it is good to nip it in the bud before things can get worse.