What to do if you have fallen in love with your boss

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If you are in love with the boss of your work whenever you are single, it is still okay to proceed more or less in the same way as you would with a co-worker ... But You must take into account some things that will help you make everything go better.

An idea to get closer to your boss in a more personal way is to invite him along with other coworkers to join some kind of activity such as a dinner, an event or perhaps go to a cocktail party. What matters is that you emphasize the destination of the appointment and the company of everyone, so you are not intimidated from the start.

What if you say you can't

If your boss says he can't come, do you have to put more pressure on him to come? If your boss declines the invitation with an excuse that is something that could easily be postponed, it's okay to ask him to relax and insist that he join you, in your own words. If you still say no to that, the follow-up conversation is more or less an opportunity. If it still does not show significant signs of interest after a follow-up, abandon the ship because it is not mooring in your port.

What if others find out that you have a crush on your boss?

You may want to keep it this secret until further notice. Not to say definitely… It is best not to discuss it with anyone who knows who might spread rumors. And be careful not to show too clearly that you are interested in your boss, because rumors and comments can start much faster than you can imagine.

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What will people think of me if they find out I'm dating my boss?

People will inevitably find out, but not right away. Since your boss will probably insist, it's best to keep it a secret until things get serious. When the word gets out, it'll be the office conversation for quite some time either way, but at least sticking together saves the worst of potential scrutiny.

Having a crush on a coworker is difficult to deal with, but it is not something that is completely out of your control. If you have an intense attraction to them but can't seem to get their interest, don't worry. You don't need to change jobs, and you don't need to fear going to work every day out of embarrassment. Eventually, your desire for that person will diminish, and You will be able to return to your normal routine with practically no complications due to the situation.

He thinks that love cannot be controlled and in things of the heart, no one can exert control. If you feel that you are falling in love with your boss, do not deny it, accept that feeling because it is real in your heart. In the event that it is not reciprocated, then it will be time to look for ways to get it out of your mind so that you can continue to carry out your life in the best possible way.


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