Why we we kiss? People have a natural need to show our affection through kisses, but sometimes, more than a show of affection or love, it is also a type of language. You may be surprised to learn that not all kisses are the same. What's more, you may even realize that each kiss you have given has been different.
We kiss passionately, warmly. We kiss to calm anger after an argument. We wake up with one kiss and say goodbye with another. None taste the same. And it is even possible that you kissed each of the couples you have had throughout your life in a different way. The intense kisses of adolescence. Those so full of excitement in a short summer relationship ... Kisses are part of our language as emotional beings. Let's talk about it today in Bezzia.
What is the purpose of kisses?
According to Gordon G Gallup, a biopsychologist at the University of Albany, our lips evolved differently to serve one purpose: to facilitate mate selection. This data may surprise you, but there are many scientists who remind us of something really curious:
- A kiss is a complex process by which we unconsciously analyze the genetic compatibility of our possible partners.
- In addition to this "saliva exchange", we perceive aspects such as smell, tactile or postural information ...
- We are precisely women the most select when looking for a partner. We who give more importance to kisses, obtaining with them all these important details in an unconscious way.
- Through kisses, people also find out the commitment of our partner. Women are again the most intuitive. We who perceive if there is authentic sincerity in that simple act, or if the opposite, it is simple passion without emotion.
Kisses are an emotional barometer
1. The biological purpose of kissing
A kiss is not the simple union of lips. From a mouth. We are sure that you yourself will have perceived countless things when you have been kissed. We notice coldness or obligation, for example. The lack of interest of a couple that perhaps no longer cares about us.
We notice in turn, emotional intensity of those other people who really love us. That with their kisses, they tell us much more than words. We could say that they not only fulfill biological and psychological information. They are also a barometer of our emotions. However, there are many who think that kisses do not serve any biological purpose. But it is a mistake. Let's see why:
- Kisses are a type of language. It is through them that we select our possible partners.
- Kisses are the prelude to sex. They are those moments where desire and excitement, an essential ritual for the reproduction of the human being.
- Let us now put aside the kisses as we understand them. Those carried out at the couple level. This gesture full of affection and affection, is also essential in the upbringing of our children. That union with the little ones through which, strengthen the bond of love and care. Essential for the development of the human being.
- Kisses, as you can see, are an essential part of our biology. They fulfill an emotional, psychological function essential to our species.
Kisses and their importance for health
Surely on more than one occasion you have heard about the benefits of kissing for our body and our emotional balance. These are interesting facts that we have to take into account. Take note:
- All the more stable and happy couples, affirm that one of the secrets of their happiness is precisely the kisses.
- Kissing is a wonderful and effective way to relieve stress. Nothing better to end a discussion.
- Kisses serve to reaffirm our affection. They are simple signs that calm fears, doubts or insecurities.
- Kissing reinforces our immune system. This feeling of well-being relieves tension, purifies toxins and strengthens our natural defenses.
- The act of giving a passionate kiss floods our body with beneficial endorphins. Those hormones of happiness that bring us so much well-being and balance.
- Kisses regulate our blood pressure. Our heartbeat accelerates, but they follow an adequate rhythm similar to what we would have if we did a type of light exercise.
- Kissing burns calories. If we do it for at least half an hour in a passionate way, we will burn between 8 and 17 calories.
- Kissing frequently with our partner reinforces our Self esteem. It reaffirms us in our relationship, we feel loved, loved and in turn, we offer love to the other person. A simple act loaded with multiple dimensions that are very important to our personality.
- According to what the longest lasting and happiest couples tell us, kisses are essential in the morning and at night. When we wake up in the morning and see our partners, when we say goodbye of them and when we go to sleep at night.
As you can see, there is nothing more rewarding and healthy than kisses. Those sincere displays of love that we should practice with more intensity during this Valentine's Day.