Did you know that 20-30% of women have reported no orgasm during sex? Are you one of them? Many women in their twenties and thirties, who are healthy and able to orgasm on their own, do not reach orgasm when they have sex with their partner. And this can not be! Barring a health issue or simply deciding not to orgasm, you should be able to climax every time.
Change your thinking ... Don't worry: I'm not going to tell you to meditate to reach orgasm. But, I think you need to change your thinking right away if you want to know how to orgasm every time and reach the maximum potential for sexual pleasure.
Top tips for learning to orgasm every time
There are many ways that women can climax, So don't just think that you can only climax from toys or that you only want to climax from penetration. You can learn how to orgasm every time you have sex (believe it or not), you just have to be patient.
Orgasms can be very different depending on the type of stimulation provided, so enjoy experimenting and learning the forms and types of orgasms that you are capable of.
Foreplay works better!
It's not a myth: the hotter you are, the more likely you are to climax. The key is knowing what kind of foreplay works for you. Take the time during solo play to discover the places that send an immediate pleasure signal to your brain.
Slow down and ask your partner to explore your body with their fingers, with their tongue or with a sex toy, you decide! A slow, light touch that changes location makes the body and brain wonder where the next touch will be placed and can set you up for orgasm very quickly. It is important to avoid repeatedly rubbing the same place with the palms of your hands: desensitizes the body and does not rev the engine.
Nipples and hips
Once your man has spent time with his fingertips tracing the areas that get you going, be sure to direct him towards your nipples and hip bones, an access point that is often overlooked. These two areas when stimulated will excite you beyond measure.
Tell him what works
While you'll eventually orgasm much more easily, it's a good idea to let your partner know what's working and what's not, and don't be flirtatious about it. When something feels good, groan. Keep your hand there or say things like: "Oh God, don't stop," or whatever works for you
The secret of the oral
Tell your partner that pornography is produced to appear sexy. Moving her tongue like a pornstar probably won't do anything for you. It is best to concentrate the tip along one side of the clitoris gently and repeatedly, and then increase the pressure. Eventually flattening and pressing the top of his tongue on your clitoris and maintaining contact while moving up and down can lead to mind-blowing orgasms due to the sustained, lubricated contact.