You like him, he likes you and you want to be in a serious relationship, but deep down you are not clear about it. When you have a hard time committing even though your partner loves you, you can feel your heart break. You want to do it but there is something that slows you down ... Or the opposite can also happen, that you are with an immature person who only wants you to hang out But when you talk about something serious, it slips out of your hands.
Maybe you are with a person who is interested in you, but you cannot determine if he is willing to commit or not, here are some signs that tell you that he likes you a lot but that he is simply not ready for a serious relationship yet. Keep reading…
You have been seriously injured in the past
Because of that, you can't help but repeat over and over again how much you don't want to have to go through the same heartache again. He tells you this not because he thinks you're a heartbreaker but because he likes you but isn't ready to commit yet due to his painful past. Wait for me to get over it first. Wait for it to heal and learn to trust again. You don't want to be with someone who is clearly not ready for a healthy love relationship.
Sends you mixed signals
When you are together, he treats you like you are the most beautiful girl in the world. It makes you happier with even the smallest things it does. However, when you are apart, it is as if he changed completely and you wonder if you did something wrong ... you have not done anything wrong. This may confuse you but never blame yourself for mixed signals, he is simply afraid of compromise.
You don't know his parents
You know they exist because he talks about them from time to time. You know that he will visit them when he can, but he never asks you to join him so that you can introduce yourself formally. This is because while he is interested in you, he may be thinking that introducing you to his family indicates that you are taking the relationship to the next level. And you may not be ready for that kind of commitment yet.
Don't care about labels
Well, he's not as obsessed, at least not as obsessed as you are. For him, what matters is that they are together and that they are happy with what they have and where they are. Yes, he may not have called you his "girlfriend" and he may not have referred to himself as your "boyfriend."But that doesn't mean it has changed the way he values you.
He may not be ready to commit to the heavy and serious responsibilities that come with the label, but that doesn't mean he cares less about you. So don't worry ... little by little it will come.
Communicates constantly and then distances himself
He texts you, calls you, and sends you icons from morning to afternoon. He controls you just to make sure you are okay. When you thank him for his effort and consistency, he tries to be cool and acts like what he's been doing is no big deal. If you notice that he behaves in this way, you can be sure that he wants to commit to you, but he is scared. Make him feel that you still appreciate him just the same.