At first a man when you are with him may make you feel like he has won the lottery. In addition to being attractive, it is fun, it is quite charming! He knows what to do and what to say to put a smile on your face. But when things start to get more serious with that man, it seems that this "honeymoon" comes to an end ... and it seems that he does not want anything serious with you.
Although things seem to be going well between the two of you, you can't help but notice that there is something that is not going quite right in both of you. It seems that he is absent in the relationship, as if he is "lost." Suddenly his daily phone calls become weekly, the beautiful texts when he wakes up, they have disappeared, it is difficult for you to contact him to talk for a while ... it seems that the relationship is starting to get colder.
Maybe nothing happens to your boy and he does not want to break up with you either, simply that he is an emotionally unavailable man or that he does not want anything serious, but you have begun to realize now, when it is really showing you what it really is like. If you want to know if your boy is (or is not) an emotionally unavailable man, then keep reading the following signs ... so you can know if he is the man you really want to spend the rest of your life with (or not).
Cancel plans
It is possible that you have spent several days making plans to be together with your boy, but he at the last minute is going to cancel you or what is worse ... he does not appear. Although if this happens to you more than once, it is not only that it is emotionally inaccessible, it is also inconsiderate. Is it really worth being with a man like that?
He doesn't always pick you up on the phone
Sometimes because he has a lot of work and other times because he tells you that he has a lot of work but you just don't feel like talking on the phone. This can make you feel like you are dating a ghost. He does not respond to calls or messages, he does not see it necessary. If he ever calls you immediately after doing so, you will be scared if something has happened to him ...
Afraid of commitment
Over time you will begin to realize that all his promises to meet his friends or family were blown away. He wants nothing to do with compromising he does not like it and is afraid of it. If you begin to notice that he does not want to commit to you, it is a red flag that he is not emotionally ready to take the next step. You deserve to be with a man who is proud to be by your side and who wants to shout it from the rooftops!
He does not talk about his feelings
Perhaps it is difficult for him to tell you that he loves you but it is also possible that don't want to talk about your deep feelings and to avoid having conversations with you that might make them feel uncomfortable. But, with whom better than with your partner to open your heart? If he is not confident enough to talk to you about everything that overwhelms him, it is better that you value whether that relationship is for you or not.