It is true that forgiveness is a good tool to feel good and to be able to have a healthy relationship with others and with our partner. But we can forgive our partner to a certain extent, whiche is not appropriate is that you forgive and forgive and abuse your benevolence. If someone cheats on you, you should not go back to that person, but although this seems very obvious, it is not when love is involved.
Cheating when you are in a love relationship can be the biggest reason to break the emotional bond, and that is because cheating in a relationship is one of the worst things your partner can do to you. Some people when they are cheated on by their partners commit the adventure of going back with them thinking that they will not do it again. But you have to avoid toxic circles, if you need to be sure that they will not hurt you again, you will have to keep some things in mind so as not to forgive them again, or you will be hurt again.
When you forgive him and he cheats on you again, he doesn't deserve you
If someone cheats on you, you find out, you forgive him ... and he cheats on you again, what is happening? That that person does not deserve you and you should not waste time in that relationship, as simple as that. He does not love you, because if he did he would not cheat on you and respect your relationship. But it is that even if he has cheated on you only once, who tells you that he cannot do it again no matter how much he swears he is sorry?
Do not allow me to manipulate you emotionally, Nor does he take advantage of you because if you are deceived and you do not want to realize it, the fault of continuing to suffer is only yours. Love yourself and respect yourself and don't allow those kinds of people to be in your life!
If he lies to you over and over again ... he will do it again
The lie is like deception, when you discover it you feel that something inside you has broken and it is very difficult for all the pieces to be put back together. A liar lies over and over again, he is a toxic person who does not deserve to be in your life. If he lies to you and after discovering him he asks for your forgiveness, tells you that he is sorry but that you are what he wants most in life, you will probably believe him. But don't let him lie to you twice, not even about the silliest things (unless he is preparing a surprise party for you and you must be deceived for a while, in this case there is no problem).
But you must remember that an essential foundation in love as a couple is respect and if someone lies to you or cheats on you, they are two extreme ways of disrespecting yourself, and you can't love someone if you don't really respect them, Do not give your love to someone who does not know how to appreciate you!
And if you ever finally realize that you deserve better, don't think twice, your happiness and dignity come first.