Puberty is the stage in life where the greatest changes occur in the lives of boys and girls. The body begins to change and passes from childhood to physical maturity through sexual and physical changes that the body acquires over time. The body and mind of children undergo great changes that can vary from one child to another. Both girls and boys will go through this stage to take them from adolescence to maturity. This moment usually occurs between the ages of 10 and 14 with changes in behavior, sexual desire, impulsivity, etc. Hormones are usually the main responsible for everything that happens in the emotional interior at puberty.
Perhaps you have a son in full puberty at the moment and you have some doubts that you do not dare to comment or that you simply have in your head but that you are not looking for an answer. Do not worry because today I want to answer you some frequently asked questions from fathers and mothers about puberty, maybe you will find answers to your concerns.
Why do some adolescents have more physical and emotional changes than others?
If you realize two girls of the same age can have a big difference in their physical and even emotional changes, they can have menstruation earlier than others and they can even have a different maturation. In children too differences can be seen since two children of the same age can have a totally different development which can be seen in physical development, hair and even body volume.
This happens because genetic factors play a very important role, as well as ethnicity or regionality. Depending on genetics and ethnicity, two boys or girls of the same age may have a totally different development.
Is it true that teenagers sweat more and smell worse at puberty?
It is true that adolescents sweat more frequently and even stronger so they can have a worse odor. This is so because the maturation hormones will also change the characteristics of the sweat.
Do all teenagers have pimples?
Hormones are to blame for our kids' pimples at puberty. They are responsible for common pimples in adolescents although it does not happen to everyone and it will depend on the sensitivity of children to hormones and the type of skin they have.
To avoid having pimples, they will have to wash their face properly and avoid using oily creams. that will only bring out more pimples. It is also very important not to touch the pimples or pimples because they could cause spots and even scars.
How to talk to children about sex?
It is true that talking to children about sex can be uncomfortable but it is very important to do it in the most natural way possible. Your children must realize that it is a topic like any other and that they can trust you to ask what they need.
Do they have sexual desire at this age?
Sexual desire appears for the first time at these ages and as parents you will have to be attentive to these changes in order to establish an open channel for dialogue. You will have to be informed and be able to resolve your possible doubts before speaking with your children. The tranquility and security that you transmit to your son before his sexual desire is very important so that you can learn how to have a healthy sex life in your adult life.
You will have to explain what it is to practice safe sex, the consequences of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and how to avoid unwanted pregnancies. The more information you have the children, the less problems they will have and you will be calmer.
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