If you want to have a good future with your partner, it will be necessary that you also have points in common such as, for example, wanting to have a future both on the same path. If you do not want to have a future with your partner, it is clear that yours will have an expiration date. In this way, if your partner wants to travel a lot, move from one place to another, or even settle from the beginning, you must want to do the same or at least have the same concerns.
In this way, both of you can have your lives aligned. You can also be together effortlessly. This is crucial to making sure your future plans line up, or you may be wasting time and energy on a person who wants the opposite of life compared to what you want.
The lifestyle
Similar to the need to have plans for the future in common, you must also have your lifestyle in common. This is also crucial because lifestyle encompasses your life as a whole. You should see if you and your partner have similar lifestyles today, and if you plan to have similar lifestyles in the future.
This is very important as this will show you if you want those lazy Sundays, busy weeks, pub and club nights, or hiking days. It is better to be compatible in terms of this so that that way you can be on the same page as your partner. In addition, by having a compatible lifestyle, you will have more quality time together.
The personality
This is very important for you to get along. However, in terms of personality, you need to make sure you know the real ones. If you do, that means you have seen his true personality. You need to make sure that your natural personality matches their natural personality and that he is not going to constantly crash, cause problems or make you resent or even hate him.
Knowing what you should have in common with your partner is very difficult. After all, each person is different and that makes each relationship unique, which means that some of this may not even be important to you and your partner. However, it is important to ensure that both you are compatible with each other by making sure that you both want the same things in life.
Hobbies
This is complicated. It is important to have different hobbies as this will give you both some space from each other and it will also allow you to stay true to yourself. However, it is also important to have hobbies that align (mountain biking and photography for example), or hobbies that are exactly the same.
This way, you can bond, through hobbies that you both love or through new hobbies while teaching your partner and learning from your partner as well. In the end, you also have to make sure that on your must-have list, you have each other. Also, make sure you both share the same values, beliefs and ideas about the issues that really matter to you.