It is possible that you started a relationship with great enthusiasm because that boy seemed wonderful to you. He is charming, handsome and it seems that he is also a good man. But as the weeks go by you realize that Something unexpected happens: he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend. How do you get into a new relationship if you still have your ex in your head? We don't know, but it happens.
Couples who break up cannot continue being friends because that will only make them think about the ex for too long, something that will prevent them from falling in love again with a new person who can bring good (and new) things to their life.
End the relationship
It could have been something very nice but it won't be possible as long as you have your ex in your head. If you've noticed how your gaze changes when your name is mentioned or you just can't stop talking about it, then you have to think about your dignity. You may feel compelled to end the relationship, but in your heart you know that it is the best thing to do.
But if you don't know how to do it, the first thing you have to think about is that your feelings are clear and that it is not a meaningless impulse. If you really think that the man you're dating is having a crush on his ex, then talk about those feelings to put the cards on the table and make sure that it really is the right decision.
Time to break
For many people, ending a relationship is not always an easy task, especially if you have been dating that person for more than a year and you really love them. You need to be sure of what you are going to do to avoid the emotional pain of regret. Finding the right words and the right time is not always an easy task. Remember that breakups must be done face to face, forget about using WhatsApp and be more courageous.
Accept your feelings
If you love him and he loves another woman, you probably feel bad, but to overcome those feelings you need to accept them first. Accept your feelings and when you have done it then you can start the definitive conversation to be able to break up with him. You can use a start that is something like: "I really enjoyed our relationship a lot but I feel that it is better for us to be friends than to fight something that is greater than our love." You should remain calm and explain that you feel that he has feelings towards his ex girlfriend and that prevents you from being able to trust him and maintain a stable relationship with your partner.
Listen to what he has to say to you
Even if you are sad and heartbroken, you must make sure that it is a decision of both and not something one-sided. If he doesn't want to talk about it, try to get him to. If he insists that he has no feelings for his ex, listen to what he has to tell you, it may not be what you thought and you were totally wrong. Maybe she thinks something about her but the feelings she has for you are much stronger, But you may need time to heal your wounds and get over the relationship with your ex.