Does it hurt to have sex for the first time?

There have been many doubts and many myths about the first time a woman has sex with a man. If it hurts as much as it says, if it bleeds, whether or not you can get pregnant, etc. All these doubts are very frequent in a woman inexperienced in sex like all the majority of the adolescents.

Therefore, today I have brought you this article to tell you about this uncertainty that all adolescent girls have, so that once the myths are only stories and can be enjoyed with complete peace of mind the first time you have sex.

The first time with a guy, for most women, it has to be super romantic and special, to remember him throughout his life. The truth is that sex for the first time the person must be calm and relaxed and enjoy the moment so as not to have a bad time.

There are many beliefs and myths that if it hurts or not and that if you are a virgin you have to bleed. But this is not true at all, since bleeding was formerly seen as a sign of honesty, where the woman has only been touched, seen and penetrated by her husband and, therefore, was worthy for him.

But this is just another hoax of men to feel superior beings to women. Without a doubt, another machismo test.

However, it must be said that in most cases the first time if there is a little pain, but it is natural and it is not a strong or exaggerated pain. By never having penetrated, even when the woman has masturbated previously, the vagina is a very small hole, where the man's erect penis has to enter, which, even though it is small, can become painful.

However, it is not a strong pain, but a small pain or a tightness on the vaginasometimes causing some stinging. When having sex for the first time, you should be relaxed and calm and think nothing more than the pleasure you give each other. This way the vagina will not be contracted and the penetration is smoother and less painful.

Also, it is advisable that the man stimulate enough before penetration to the woman so that it lubricates her vagina a lot and thus when penetrating it does not hurt either. In addition, the man must perform the penetration gently and slowly, since if he does it abruptly, he can bleed but because there has been a tear inside the vagina.

El hymen It has been considered a sign of virginity, although it has also been said that it is so fragile that riding a bicycle easily breaks it. The hymen is not a plate that cracks with a simple blow, but a membrane that is between the limit of the union of the vagina with the vulva. Therefore, if there is masturbation, the hymen can tear and not bleed for that reason.

In short, that myths are just myths and that to enjoy sex the first time with your boy you must be calm and enjoy the moment and the pleasure of sex. This way it will not hurt or you will only feel a small tightness in the vagina, without bleeding. The important thing about everything is not that it hurts but that you protect first of all with condoms.

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Source - Terra woman