We've all had that one person in our lives that we desperately want attention from. No matter what we do, we can't seem to get the attention we want, if we have any. We sit there and wonder what else we could do or say to make this person love us, but it's not worth it. If you have to work so hard to get someone to pay attention to you, then it's not worth it.
Here are some reasons why you should stop worrying about the person who doesn't care about you.
You are losing your time
Maybe you get angry because you don't know what you are doing wrong but in reality it is that you are not doing anything wrong ... Well, one thing you do wrong: trying too hard for someone who does not deserve you. There are many other things that are more productive. If it doesn't make you feel good about yourself, why do you do it? You don't need people in your life who don't want to be by your side.
It won't change your mind
If a person wants to talk to you, then they will talk to you. When someone really wants you in their life, they will go out of their way to keep you there. It can be hard to tell when a guy is just busy or trying to distance himself from you. It would be nice if a guy was honest about his feelings instead of playing with you, it would be the right thing to do. But it's all about games, so you just have to learn to play correctly so as not to get hurt.
People like to be played along, but when there is no interest, the game is over. Forcing someone to do something they don't want to will only lead to failure.
You are worth more
Why do you willingly want to sit there and let someone do this to you? It's stupid. As people, we must learn to have more respect for ourselves and really understand that we do not deserve to be treated this way. We need to step up and say what we want, rather than letting others control the entire relationship or lack of it.
You should be with a person who treats you as if you are his most important person in the world.
You have many opportunities to take advantage
How many times are you going to let me play these games with your head and your heart? You know you've given him one (two or three) too many chances. Why let this continue?
If he is not making your life better, then he is making it worse. There is nothing more than that. There is no reason to maintain dead weight in your life. He knows that you will come back whenever he decides to pay attention to you. This is not okay, nor is it acceptable behavior. You don't need someone to keep you in his life just because he's convenient when he's bored.
Not worth it
You are an absolute goddess and if a guy doesn't treat you like one then he's not worthy of you. You don't have time to waste it on someone who doesn't value you. If he doesn't see how cool you are, then he's blind and doesn't deserve you. He doesn't deserve to have such a wonderful woman. He's doing this to you because there's another girl out there who's in control of his attention, that's all.
Focus on who does know how to treat you well.