Not all sex can be good sex. It is inevitable that more than a few sessions in the bedroom will be a serious disappointment. Sometimes it is nobody's fault, and other times it is due to a lack of talent, knowledge or desire to participate. However, when it comes to having sex, we all prefer to have it no matter what it's like, right? Incorrect. Bad sex is much worse than not having sex.
Makes you more sexually frustrated
When you go from 15 minutes to an hour with no climax to break up, not only are you disappointed at the end of it all, but you actually want great sex a lot more. You're even more driven and sexually aroused because you just added more fuel to the hot fire.
When it comes to preserving your sex drive for something worthwhile, the best way to do it is to avoid bad sex if possible. If it's the first time and you don't realize how bad it's going to be, well that's bad luck but you'll learn your lesson.
He can be adventurous by giving you pleasure
Instead of having bad sex with someone, become a little adventurous with yourself. You know best what you like and it is easy to climax when you are in all your places. The best part is that you don't have to worry about not reaching or staring at the ceiling, wishing it would end.
You will never be disappointed when indulging yourself while waiting for the hottest sex of your life to return, so it is better to go with yourself rather than with someone who doesn't know what they are doing. Research different ways to do it, buy yourself a sex toy or even dabble in some porn if you are a little shy when it comes to getting turned on.
Everyone should know how to please themselves and when you are not having sex, it is the best way to give yourself that much needed sexual release.
You want to get into bed with someone else
You may end up sleeping with someone you don't necessarily want to sleep with so that you can get rid of the memory of the terrible sex you just had. There is nothing wrong with consensual and safe casual sex, but it is not something that everyone agrees on. The problem is that even if you are one of those people who does not like casual sex, You may deviate from your ideals just to get out, and that's not a good thing.
It's an unnecessary disappointment
When having bad sex with someone you already know is going to be bad, you're basically setting yourself up for disappointment. There is enough disappointment in the world without literally being imposed on you. Expecting good sex will be much more satisfying, even if you feel like you can hardly wait any longer for that release.
Makes things uncomfortable
After all is said and done and both of you are lying naked on opposite sides of the bed, the awkward silence could be almost unbearable. The worst part of this is that if you have a decent relationship, or a friendship if it is the type of friends with benefits, you will finish it.
It's hard to go from bad sex to great sex with someone you're not dating yet, so being able to get over this issue will be too much work and most people don't want to bother with it. Neither should you.