Although it is a somewhat normalized behavior within relationships, it is not good for a man to opt for yelling when it comes to solving the different problems that may arise within a certain relationship. The continuous screaming ends up deteriorating any couple, with the negative results that this entails in the long term.
Yelling is a way to control the couple and of hurting the other party emotionally. In the following article we tell you why a person can yell in a relationship and what to do about such behavior.
Reasons why a person yells in a relationship
There are a number of reasons or causes that can lead to a person not yelling regularly in a relationship:
- The scream is the only mechanism he knows to deal with different problems. Given this, it is important that you know how to regulate the different emotions and being able to communicate with your partner in a calm and relaxed way.
- The scream is a way to maintain control within a certain discussion with the couple. The person does not want to lose control in any way and choose to scream.
- The scream may be the result of aggressive behavior or conduct. This is a person who is not able to solve things by talking and having a conversation.
- Feeling threatened continuously makes you scream when it comes to solving things. With the screams you feel much safer although it is not the best way to find solutions to the different conflicts.
- In the vast majority of cases, the screaming is a direct consequence of the education received at home. A person who has grown up in a home where yelling was in the light of day, it is normal that when they become an adult they use yelling as the only way to resolve conflicts. That is why the education that children receive during childhood from their parents is essential.
What to do if the partner screams constantly and at all hours
The worst thing the other person can do is yell too, since in this way the situation can become unsustainable and seriously worsen. In any case, it must be pointed out that the one with the problem is the person who is yelling and who does not know how to communicate. It is someone who lacks communication tools and who is not capable of solving different problems from reason.
In the event that the scream becomes normal and habitual, it is time to sit down with that person and solve the problem. You have to make that person understand that things are not solved by shouting and that in the long run they are not beneficial to the relationship at all. The emotional damage is getting bigger and bigger with the bad that this leads to the good future of the couple.
Unfortunately, many of these people are not able to solve it on their own. In this case and if you want to save the relationship, It is best to go to a good professional who knows how to treat the problem in the best possible way. In any case, it is essential that the person who shouts realize at all times that he is not acting as he should and that he must change drastically if he wants to continue with the relationship.
In short, under no circumstances can one of the parties in a certain relationship be allowed to shout at the time of talking about things. Problems are normal in any couple and in the face of this, it is best to sit down together and look for solutions in a relaxed and calm way.