There are times when relationships are taken for granted and this can even feel like disrespect.. It is important that you realize if your partner takes your relationship for granted because no matter how in love you are, no one deserves this. No one deserves to be despised. You should acknowledge your efforts just when you show your gratitude to your partner. But what if you really can't know?
Love has the annoying ability to blind us. We fall in love with someone and it seems they can only do good. No matter what they do, we will dismiss it as nothing simply because we cannot see the mistake unfold. However, this can also make you miserable without knowing why. Well, the reason for your heartache is probably because you are taken for granted. Your man doesn't really appreciate you. If you're not sure if your partner is treating you the way you deserve, here are some signs that can help you know if they really don't love you.
He does not appreciate the beautiful things you do for him
Basically, he is not grateful for the nice things you say or do to him. He just expects you to do it, as if it's an obligation for you to do it. Sure, both people in the relationship should work hard, but sweet gestures should never be expected ... They are things you do out of the goodness of your heart. You want to make him happy and so you make sure he is. That is not expected ... You do it because you want the relationship to work and that is why they are gestures that should be appreciated.
If he doesn't recognize those little things as amazing, wonderful, and kind gestures, he won't appreciate what you deserve. Even if it's something as small as bringing him a cup of coffee, he should be infinitely grateful and tell you how great you are for doing it.
He gets angry when you don't do good things
This is based on your expectations. He thinks you should be doing things and when you don't, because you are busy and may not have a good day, he will get mad. The fact that he's grumpy about not doing nice things just proves that he never appreciated them in the first place. They were selfless acts that are not necessary. If he doesn't understand that, he doesn't appreciate you.
Does not do nice things for you
This will be the most obvious of the signs. Think about it. Does your man treat you well and do nice things for you? Do not? Well then it's pretty clear that he takes you for granted. Why should you show yourself love and appreciation just so that he never returns the favor? Even if you do nice things, when it's only once in a blue moon, it doesn't count. If he cares about you and wants to keep you in his life, he would be kinder and more romantic all the time.
Has no time for you
We all have busy lives. Work, friends, and family can get in the way of time spent with loved ones. However, if you're pulling teeth to try and get your man to spend time with you, it's a big deal. If he really appreciated and loved you, he would reserve the time for you. You would not have to ask, beg or scold. He would like to spend time with you because he likes to be around you. I would not want to lose you. And that means he would have to make an effort to keep you in his life. When he doesn't have time for you, it's because he doesn't appreciate your time with you.