Not everyone wants to realize that their relationship is over and they even deny seeing reality and prefer to live in a world of fantasy and deep pain. But if your life isn't going where it really should go, then the time has come to make a change, you deserve a true love of those that make you feel butterflies in your stomach and wake up with a smile every morning. Watch out for signs that your relationship is over.
1. No communication
Surely at the beginning of the relationship everything was idyllic and you spent hours and hours talking about each other or your future together ... you could talk with your boy day and night. He was your best friend, your confidante and he called you several times a day. Now it seems that talking to him is quite a challenge and it is difficult to come up with a good topic of conversation in which you both feel comfortable.
2. There is no sex
It seems your boy has lost interest in sex with you. Maybe you wear sexy underwear but you don't wear it, you just want to look good. Is he really so tired or in such a bad mood that he doesn't even want to caress you? If you can't remember the last time you made love and really enjoyed yourself, then it is one of the main signs that your relationship is over. What's more, remember that if there is no orgasm ... there is no connection.
3. You only call him ... sometimes
Surely at the beginning of the relationship you were even overwhelmed by everything that called you, from their romantic text messages ... and you were the same. Now maybe you call or send a whastapp message to notify you that you have to buy potatoes or that you will arrive later from work.
4. There is only work
Looks like your boy is married to work. He spends a lot of time in the office and it seems that suddenly, he has events every other night so that he cannot see you. Maybe he avoids seeing you because he doesn't know how to tell you that he no longer feels the same way about you.
5. Your friends always come first
If your friends are always first before you, it is clear that there is something wrong. It is good to combine time and that each one has time for himself and his friends ... but when you are in a relationship as well you have to take quality time to enjoy each other.
6. Doesn't listen to you when you speak
It seems that when he speaks, the world has to stop so that you listen to him, but if you are the one who is telling him something important ... things change and it is no longer so important. It makes him listen to you, he even nods to you but when you ask him ... he does not know what you have told him about.
7. You feel like there is nothing to do
I will always say that as long as there is love there is opportunity and if you think it is worth fighting… fight! But if you see that he does not treat you how you deserve, then ... think that you deserve someone who treats you like the queen you are.