There are many reasons why, day by day, eroticism in the couple is lost. Despite the continued existence of love, affection and admiration, the passion that we felt until not long ago weakens a bit. Factors such as routine, problems at work or stress, are usually great enemies when it comes to losing those magical moments of intimacy in the couple.
Eroticism is fed, encouraged and created. If until not too long ago it emerged on its own, there comes a time when we need small changes. And this is not negative at all. We must always remember that a relationship needs to be renewed, it is not a straight path where everything must be taken for granted, on the contrary, a couple must work on the most everyday aspects every day. Today in Bezzia We want to give you 5 tips to reawaken eroticism in your relationship.
The magic of hotels
Sometimes sex with a partner becomes routine. We limit ourselves to the fact that the meeting is always in the same place and even at the same times. Keep in mind that true eroticism is always born in our brain, and that it detests something above all: routine.
Any change can stand as a stimulus to fantasize about.
- Simple fantasy is already the best eroticism, the one that will provide us with the most intensity. It is getting out of the routine, it is "doing something new" with the person we love and that is always positive.
- There are many couples who declare that hotel meetings are always the best. We are away from home, in a different place and we have made an appointment "for something in particular."
Therefore, it would be very appropriate for you to surprise your partner with a hotel night. The best thing is that it is something unexpected, something that takes our partner by surprise and that in turn, forces us to think all day about that meeting.
Let's talk about what you would like to try
If you have never had this conversation with your partner, it is time to have it. Since there always comes a time when passion fades, and eroticism is lost a bit, it is a very appropriate moment to be honest.
- The first thing will be to communicate to our partner that you feel that some passion is lacking in the relationship. You have to see what happens. Is it because of work? Have you fallen to a point where despite the existence of love, a bit of that magic from before has been lost? Nothing happens, you can talk about all this.
- Without shame, we will explain to our partner that we would like to try new things. In turn, the other person must also tell us.
- It is important that to get to this, we have good trust with our partner, and the clear assurance that the other person is not going to judge us for saying what we would like to try. Keep in mind that if there is no trust, the relationship is not authentic.
To discover new things
Sometimes, we are a bit limited when deciding what we would like to try because in reality, we do not know what things exist. For this, nothing better than discovering it between the two.
Today the market for eroticism, toys, gels, intimate clothing, etc., is a large market that is worth knowing and that it can bring us new aspects to the relationship that were previously unknown.
Do not hesitate to enter more than one store and even talk to experts for advice. There is no need to have limitations, fears or shame, it is a way to renew the relationship in an interesting, fun and enriching way.
Suggest eroticism throughout the day
As we have pointed out at the beginning, eroticism is the spark that ignites, feeds and stimulates our brain, and therefore We need that magic to be activated not at the same moment in which we initiate the sexual act itself, but much earlier.
- Feel free to send your partner suggestive messages throughout the day.
- We can make quick visits to your work, or small appointments where without getting anywhere, we explicitly leave our wish.
- The feeling of knowing that we are loved, loved and above all highly desired is the "Better gasoline" to activate eroticism.
Power all the resources of the senses
This part is very important when playing with eroticism and sensuality. Desire is first awakened by our senses, and they are a very powerful weapon to seduce and make us desirable.
- Take care of perfumes, the smell of the room and the smell of your body. The fruity tones are usually very effective and pleasant.
- Playing with flavor is also as fun as it is seductive. Do not hesitate to leave in the room all kinds of resources that can ignite your imagination, from strawberries, chocolate, cream ... Whatever you like the most.
- Another important aspect is to play with the resources that mobilize the visual. In us as well as in them, inciting and provoking with our eyes, gestures and movements is very effective. Therefore, it is always worth wearing sexy clothes.
And what can we also say about that essential sense such as hearing? The power of words is essential. Whisper in your partner's ear how much you want it, how much you want it and what you would like to do. It is an aspect that never fails and is worth trying.