Love can drive people crazy. After all, it is the most powerful emotion. When you are in love with your partner, but the problems keep happening and the fights seem endless, you can try to keep it all together. However, this is a bad idea, because if a relationship is not going to last, the end will come sooner or later, regardless of what you do.
People who are made for each other will never try to continue a relationship in the false hope that there are quick fixes for even the biggest problems. They will manage to solve the relationship problem by communicating and modifying behavior, but they will never do any of the following to try and keep things together.
To have a baby
This is by far the worst for a deteriorating relationship because having a baby can cause more problems than it solves. Sure, you may think that sharing a life will bring you together in some way, but it doesn't. Even happy couples with children don't always make it.
The divorce rate has been on the rise and is now around 50%. So that means that half of the children born will have to endure their parents' divorce even if their parents were happy when the child was born. This means that not only will bringing a child into the couple will not help, but it could even harm attempts to fix the relationship.
In addition, Having children is expensive, time consuming, and requires teamwork and good communication. If you already have problems with teamwork and you can't seem to communicate long enough to solve your problems, what makes you think that a child will solve it? The only thing a child will do is make sure that they will have to be in each other's lives for the rest of their lives, but it does not guarantee what kind of relationship they will have.
Get marry
If your relationship is in shambles, getting married will only prolong the inevitable and add a heavy price to the breakup. The time involved in planning a wedding can be the ultimate test for couples, so it's almost ridiculously wrong to assume that if you can't make a relationship work, will getting married help solidify the bond and bring them closer together? No way.
The wedding day will be the best for both of you and this is not how it is supposed to be. Marriage is what creates a real relationship, not the wedding, so if you think that putting aside problems to make vows will make all other problems go away, you're wrong.
Engaging in sexual activities that you don't want to do
If your partner is unhappy with your sex life and has been begging you to participate in something that you are not comfortable with, going ahead and doing it will not save your relationship. It is okay to surrender to the wishes and fantasies of the other, But you have to agree without the pressure of losing the person you love if it doesn't happen.
If the two of you are not sexually compatible, no amount of fantasy will fix that. If your partner loves you as much as they say they love you, they wouldn't even dream of putting you in a position where you're not comfortable sexually.