Nangona abantu abaninzi bevile ngesondo se-tantric, kuncinci kakhulu okwaziwayo ngayo kwaye ukungazi kubalulekile. Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenziwa ngokwesini yindlela yokunxibelelana neqabane lakho, nokuba kukwinqanaba lomzimba, leemvakalelo kunye nelomoya.
Izibini ezizama ukuba zithi kulungile ekomelezeni ubudlelwane kuba iphucula ubunzima kunye nokuthembana phakathi kwabantu bobabini. Yiyo loo nto kusoloko kulixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzama izinto ezintsha ezinceda esi sibini.
Ingqondo kwisini esithandanayo
Isondo leTantric lifuna ukulingana okugqibeleleyo phakathi komzimba, ingqondo nomphefumlo. Ngexesha lokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo ngasentla, umntu kufuneka abenengqondo ecacileyo yeengxaki kunye neenkxalabo. Kungale ndlela kuphela, onokonwaba ngokupheleleyo neqabane lakho. Umntu kufuneka ayazi indlela yokulawula zonke iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zabo ukuze akwazi ukunxibelelana nesibini esikwinqanaba lengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
Isithuba kwisini esithandanayo
Xa kuziwa ekubeni neentlobano zesini kunye neqabane, indawo okanye indawo eyenzeka kuyo kubaluleke kakhulu. Iqondo lobushushu kufuneka libe mnandi, ukukhanya okuhle kunye nomculo opholileyo. Khumbula ukuba izivamvo ezintlanu kufuneka zidlale, ke zonke ezi nkcukacha kwindalo esingqongileyo zibalulekile kwaye zifezekise unxibelelwano olupheleleyo kunye nesibini.
Izikhokelo ekufuneka zilandelwe xa usabelana ngesondo kunye neqabane lakho
Kukho uthotho lwezikhokelo emazilandelwe xa uqalisa kwihlabathi elimangalisayo lesini sotric:
- Ukuphefumla kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekunxibelelaneni nomnye umntu. Kuyacetyiswa phambi kweqabane kwaye uqale ukuphefumla ngendlela ezolileyo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Kancinci ukuphefumla kokubini kungqamene kwaye kube yinto enye.
- Ukugcina ukudibana kwamehlo okuqinileyo neqabane yenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo kwisini se-tantric. Olu nxibelelwano lunceda ukomeleza ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo kwesi sibini kunye nako konke oku kubandakanya.
- Ixesha elidlulileyo kunye neqabane liyinxalenye esisiseko yesini se-tantric. Ukukhuthazana kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekunxibelelaneni ngokupheleleyo neqabane lakho. Inokubandakanya ukwanga, ukuphulula okanye ukuphulula okunceda isenzo sesondo ukuba simangalisa ngandlela zonke.
- Kwisondo lesini, umntu ufuna ukwandisa ukonwaba ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka iimvakalelo ziphindaphindwe kwaye uvuthondaba lungcono kakhulu, ukufezekisa ulonwabo olwahlukileyo nolungenakuphindwa.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba neentlobano zesini kwi-tantric yeyona ndlela imnandi yokwabelana ngesondo ngobomi bakho bonke, ngakumbi xa iyadika kwaye iyadika. Akukho lula ukuyifeza kwaye kufuna isivumelwano sobabini sobabini. Ngexesha kunye nokuziqhelanisa, ungonwabela olu hlobo lwesini kwaye wakhe ubudlelwane beemvakalelo nomnye umntu. Khumbula ukuba isondo le-tantric alifezekisi ulonwabo kunye nomntu omthandayo kuphela kodwa likwanceda ukomeleza ubudlelwane kunye nesibini ngakumbi, into enokubaluleka kakhulu kubudlelwane bokukhula kunye nokudibanisa.