Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bacinga ukuba kubudlelwane kufuneka kufumaneke phantse ukudideka kwemizimba nemiphefumlo ... Kodwa akufuneki ibenjalo, kude kuyo. Izibini zineyantlukwano kuba zingabantu abohlukileyo, enyanisweni kuphilile ukuba kunjalo. Ukuba ufuna ulwalamano lwakho lusebenze, kuyimfuneko ukuba ngaphambi kokuqhubeka, wamkele iiyantlukwano zakho.
Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuba ulandele ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo kwaye uzisebenzise. Xa ixesha elincinci lidlula uyakuqonda indlela izinto ezihamba ngcono ngayo kunokuba ubulindele.
Musa ukukhetha
Kukho iimpawu ezithile ozifunayo kwisithandwa esinokubakho. Ufuna umntu onothando, onolwazelelelo nothethayo - zonke ezi zinto zibalulekile. Kodwa xa unoluhlu olude kakhulu lweemfuno, kuya kufuneka uphinde uphinde uvavanye.
Ukudlala ngokukhuselekileyo kuya kukuthintela ekulimaleni, kodwa kuya kukuthintela ekufumaneni ubudlelwane obuhle. Ngaba ukulungele ukungaziboni ezinye izinto okanye ngaba zizinto ezithatha isigqibo kuwe? Ukuqonda okubalulekileyo nokungafunekiyo kuya kukunceda ucacise izinto xa ufumanisa amakhwenkwe anokuba ngamakhwenkwe.
Yamkela ukuba uneeyantlukwano
Ngaba izichasi ziyatsalela okanye ngaba ukungafani kwazo kuya kubangela iingxaki kubudlelwane bakho? Yinto onokuyifumana kuphela. Mhlawumbi isithandwa sakho sithanda indawo eninzi, kodwa ufuna ngakumbi ingqalelo yakhe. Okanye mhlawumbi unomdla owahlukileyo. Ekuphela kwendlela eninokonwaba ngayo kukuba nizimisele ukulalanisa. Ukulindela ukuba achithe lonke ixesha lakhe kunye nawe yinto engekho ngqiqweni yokulindela enokonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho.
Unabanye abantu ababalulekileyo ebomini bakhe, kwaye akanakuhlala eshiya yonke into ukuze abe nawe, nokuba uyafuna nyhani. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uyihloniphe le kwaye uyinike indawo xa uziva ukuba iyimfuneko.
Ukuba nexesha lokuchitha kunye nokuchitha ixesha nabanye abantu kunokuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho kuphela. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba nibonane ngalo lonke ixesha ukuze nazi ukuba niyathandana.
Chitha ixesha elincinci kwimidiya yoluntu
Kulula kakhulu ukubanjwa kolunye ubudlelwane kwimidiya yoluntu kwaye uyithelekise neyakho. Ababini banokuzibonisa nangayiphi na indlela abafuna ngayo kwimidiya yoluntu. Nokuba baneengxaki, awuzukuyibona loo ndawo yobudlelwane babo kwiinethiwekhi.
Izibini ezininzi zifihla iingxaki zazo ngokuthumela iifoto zobusuku bomhla okanye ukuzibandakanya. Ubona kuphela icala eliqaqambileyo lobudlelwane, hayi imilo okanye ukungavisisani. Imidiya yokuncokola inokuba yinto engekhoyo kwaye ingeyonyani ngamanye amaxesha, ke ungakhathazeki ukuba ubudlelwane bakho abufani nobomnye umntu. Vumela olu lindelo luphezulu kwaye ubeke ixesha lakho kunye nomzamo kubudlelwane bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ayifezekanga, kodwa akukho buhlobo.
Yamkela ukuba ayizukuba lula
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba nithandana kangakanani. Akuyi kuba lula. Mhlawumbi ubukele ii-comedies ezininzi zothando ngeziphelo ezimnandi, kodwa ayibobomi bokwenyani. Ziya kuhlala zikhona iingxaki, kodwa okubalulekileyo yindlela ekusetyenzwa ngayo. Inyaniso kukuba, kuya kubakho amaxesha apho uya kuthathela ingqalelo ukuba ingaba loo mntu ukulungele na kwaye kuya kukwenza ubuze ukuba ingaba ubudlelwane buya naphi na. Kubalulekile ukuba uthembeke kubudlelwane bakho kwaye wenze iinjongo zakho zicace ngaphambili.