Akusoloko kusenzeka, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyinyani oko Xa abantu ababini beqala ubudlelwane babathandi, kancinci kancinci ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bunokuphucula okanye bube mandundu. Ukuba ukudibana kuya kusiba kubi kwaye kukho kuphela isini phakathi kwabo ngaphandle kweemvakalelo, kuyakufika ixesha xa ubudlelwane bezesondo buya kuphela kuba mhlawumbi omnye wabo efuna ukuqala ubudlelwane obubi ngakumbi.
Kodwa xa usondelelwano lukhula emva koko amathandabuzo aqala, kuba isithandwa esiqala kuphela ngobudlelwane bezesondo ... angaba sisibini njani? Kungenzeka? Ewe kunjalo, kwaye uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo abaqale ukudlala ngesondo baphela bethandana kwaye bonwabile kwaye behlala ixesha elide. Mhlawumbi kwenzeka nakuwe?
Kodwa ukuze wazi ukuba isithandwa sakho siba liqabane lakho ngokwenene, kuya kufuneka uthathe izinto ezithile uzithathele ingqalelo ukuze ukwazi ukwazi ukuba ubudlelwane bakho ngokwesondo abunjalo ngokwesondo ...
Awudibani nje ukuba ubelane ngesondo
Ukwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile kuwe, kodwa ngoku kubonakala ngathi ukongeza kwisini uqala ukuqala ukubonana ukuya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, phumani niyokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa, hambani ... Uqala ukubambana ngezandla, ukuphathaphathana ngobunono... Xa ucinga ngaye, awusaphindi ucinge ukonwabela ubusuku benkanuko, kodwa uqala ukuziva ezo zikhwebu esiswini sakho obungazi ngaphambili.
Uthetha kakhulu emini
Nithetha kakhulu emini nixelelane ukuba yonke into ihambe njani. Ngaphandle koko, uxelela kakhulu ngomnye nomnye kangangokuba niyazana bonke ubomi benu. Ngaphezulu, Ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kuwe ngexesha lasemini, umntu wokuqala ofuna ukumxelela nguye. Kubonakala ngathi ukongeza ekubeni ngumthandi olungileyo, uyakwazi nokuba ngumhlobo olungileyo.
Uyabazi abahlobo bakho
Nokuba uzazisa kubahlobo njengo "mhlobo", wonke umntu uyazi ukuba xa ungazibizi ngokuba ungamakhwenkwe kungenxa yokoyika ukuzibophelela, kodwa hayi ngenxa yokuba ungafuni ukonwaba kunye. Uyabona kwaye uqaphele ukuba phakathi kwenu nobabini kukho okungaphezulu kune-physics, i-chemistry eqala ukubonisa kwindalo esingqongileyo.
Uba "nomona" nawe ngokunjalo
Andithethi ukuba umona oyityhefu wokuba kunye nabanye abantu okanye ukuphuma ngaphandle kwakhe. Hayi, umona uyityhefu kwaye kufuneka uyibaleke. Ndithetha ukuba umona usempilweni ozibonisa wona ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi naloo mntu, ukuziva ungakhuselekanga ukuba ukuba "ngabahlobo kuphela ngamalungelo" omnye umfazi angaza amthabathe kuwe ngonaphakade.
Nixelelene ukuba niyathandana
Ukuba nixelelane ukuba niyathandana, awudingi bungqina bungaphezulu bokwazi ukuba eyakho ithathe inyathelo eliya phambili kwaye ukongeza kubathandi, ningabahlobo kunye nesibini. Lixesha lokuba nihlale phantsi nithethe ngobudlelwane benu kwaye ufuna ntoni ebomini bakho. Mhlawumbi nobabini niyavuma kwaye nifuna ukusuka ekubeni ngabathandi ukuya kwisibini esisemthethweni, kwaye uxelele wonke umntu!