Kuqhelekile ukuba nabaphi na abantu abatshatileyo badlule kumaxesha amnandi nakwezinye ezimbi. Ngamanye amaxesha, iingxaki ezivelayo zenza ubudlelwane bomelele ngakumbi. Ngamanye amaxesha, umlo kunye neempikiswano zenza ukuba esi sibini sihlupheke kwaye sonakalise ulwalamano olungabuncedisi kwaphela ubudlelwane.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikubonisa ezinye zezinto ezinokubonisa, Isibini esithile sinengxaki yokudinwa kakhulu kunye neenyembezi.
Ukusilela kwengxaki
Umqondiso ocacileyo obonisa ukuba izinto azihambi kakuhle kubudlelwane yinto yokuba ubunzima obabukhona ekuqaleni bulahlekile ngokupheleleyo. Kukho ukunqongophala okukhulu konxibelelwano kwaye akukho kunxibelelana phakathi kwaba bantu babini. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuqhelekile ukuba ubudlelwane buye buthathaka kakhulu.
Ukungalingani kwinqanaba elichaphazelekayo
Kwisibini esisempilweni kukho ukubandakanyeka ngokupheleleyo kwinxalenye yazo zombini kwaye imiboniso yothando nomsa iyahambelana. Akunakubakho icandelo elinye elinika yonke into kwaye elinye lihlale lingazinzanga, linganikeli nto kulwalamano. Le nyani luphawu olucace gca lokuba esi sibini sinengxaki enkulu yokunxiba.
Iingxaki ebhedini
Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto ebalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano kwaye ukuba ayisebenzi, kuyacaca ukuba into ayihambi kakuhle. Ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo benzeka ubukhulu becala kuba bobabini banobomi obugcweleyo kunye nokwanelisa ngokwesini njengesiqabane. Ukuba isondo asisebenzi kwaye nokuba bobabini okanye bobabini baneengxaki nge-libido, kuyacaca ukuba esi sibini sinengxaki yokunxiba. Kwanele ukutsho ukuba kuninzi lwezi meko, kukho iziqendu zokungathembeki ezigqiba ukwaphula isibini.
Beka isisombululo kwaye ufune uncedo
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba isibini asenzi kakuhle konke konke kwaye sinengxaki yokunxiba kunye nokukrazuka zicacile. Ingxaki kungenxa yokuba elinye okanye omabini amaqela akafuni kubona inyani kwaye bakhetha ukujonga kwenye indawo. Xa ubudlelwane buqala, wonke umntu unethemba elikhulu lokuba luya kuhlala ixesha lokuphila.
Kodwa oku akusoloko kusenzeka kwaye ngelishwa izibini ezininzi ziphela zisahlukana. Kwimeko apho kukho ubungqina bokuba into ayihambi kakuhle kubudlelwane, kubalulekile ukuhlala ecaleni komnye umntu ukuze wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwaye ukuba wenzeni ukulungisa izinto. Esinye sezona zisombululo zicetyiswayo kukuya kwingcali ukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezinokubakho. Unyango lwezibini zihlala zisebenza ngepesenti ephezulu xa kuziwa ekupheliseni iingxaki ezinokubakho kwizibini ezahlukeneyo.
Njengoko ubonile, Zininzi izinto ezinokubonisa ukuba izinto azihambi kakuhle kwisibini. Kuqhelekile ukuba ukuhamba kwexesha kubangele ukunxiba okuthile kunye nolwalamano kubudlelwane. Ngenxa yoku, kubalulekile ukuba ufune ukusombulula ukunxiba kunye neenyembezi kunye nokubheja ekuqhubekeni kobudlelwane.