Ayothusi into yokuba ukwenza uthando kubaluleke kakhulu kunokwabelana ngesondo. Eli linqanaba elitsha lokusondelelana kangangokuba uninzi lwezibini ezibonakala ngathi ziyalibala malunga nokuba sele liphelile isigaba sasemva komtshato. Nangona ezinye zesondo zokwenyama zinokuba nomtsalane ngendlela exabisekileyo kwaye zibaluleke, ukwenza uthando kumane ukubonelela ngento isondo elingenako.
Igcwele iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezikhoyo kwaye zinika indlela ngaphezulu kakhulu kwesenzo somzimba. Ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngakumbi neqabane lakho kunokwenza uthando, ke kukho iindlela zokutshintsha loo nto ukuze kwixesha elizayo kubekho uthando hayi isondo kuphela.
Dlala umculo
Ukuba ufuna ukuguqula isondo sakho sibe luthando, ukongeza isandi ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda. Yenza uluhlu lwadlalwayo lweengoma zothando ngeengoma ezicothayo eziza kukufumana okwangoku. Kubalulekile ukuba iingoma ezikuluhlu lwakho lokudlala ziingoma zothando, akukho ngoma ngesondo, ke thintela nayiphi na into enokwabelana ngesondo kakhulu njengoko iya kukususa emxholweni
Ukucotha, uhlobo lwengoma yothando ziingoma ezilungileyo kuba xa uthando ludlala ngasemva, ungangena kuluthando othatha inxaxheba kulo.
Khanyisa amakhandlela
Unokwazi okuninzi malunga namakhandlela kwigumbi lokulala. Ukukhanya okungacacanga kunokwenza imeko yothando ekunzima ukuyiphepha, oko ke kudala amava omzimba. Amakhandlela akujikelezile, kunye noluhlu lwakho lokudlala ngasemva, seta indawo yamava wothando ongasoze ulibale.
Imidlalo edlulileyo
Ukukhokelela kwisondo kuhlala kushushu njengokwesini uqobo, ke xa usolula i-foreplay ukuze uqiniseke ukuba wenza uthando, inyusa amathuba akho okusondela. Wanga iqabane lakho ukusuka entloko ukuya ezinzwaneni, ujonge kancinci yonke i-intshi yomzimba wakho kwaye uyivumele ukuba yenze okufanayo.
Xa ukwazi ukuba sesichengeni neqabane lakho kwaye umvumele ukuba afane nawe, uqhagamshelo lweemvakalelo luya kwandisa ukuvumela isini ukuba sithandane. Amakhandlela aya kutsha akujikeleze kwaye umculo uzakudlala ngasemva, kuya kuba ngathi wena kunye Iqabane lakho belikwindawo yakho yothando ephefumlelwe yimuvi yothando.
Ukudibana kwamehlo
Amandla oonxibelelwano ngamehlo ahlala engajongelwa phantsi. Ukwazi ukujonga ngokunzulu emehlweni esithandwa sakho ngelixa usenza uthando unako kubonakala kunzima ukuba awukho ngokwasemphefumlweni okwangoku.
Nangona kunjalo, loo nto inokukunceda ufike kwinqanaba apho uziva unxibelelana nomntu owenza uthando naye, hayi emzimbeni kuphela. Xa ujongana ngamehlo, ungaya kwinqanaba elitsha lokusondelana kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kube luthando ngamaxesha.
Kwaye khumbula ... sukungxama! Izinto ezizolileyo zimnandi ngakumbi kumaxesha osondeleyo njengesibini.